Serious (Advice) Someone Please Help Make sense of this....

Started by shahidah, Mar 7, 2017, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Lucy
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    Mar 9, 2017
    I was talking to this one girl, wasn't even sure if i was gonna make a move or not, wasnt even sure if i was interested as well. Rock up to a party and 3 other females immediately hit me with "come out side for a sec" so i go out there, these 3 are then like "dont kiss that girl"

    all of my what.

    Sometimes I truly think a primal sense of smell comes into play and pheromones and hormones or other f---ing scientific atoms start giving off weird signals. it's honestly astounding.

    Even if you don't even find interest in a girl, but start talking to one, you'll get a guaranteed "hey" in your inbox from a random chick you havent spoke to in a decade
     
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  2. shahidah
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    Mar 9, 2017
    this is so true lol ... I've had plenty of married women confirm
     
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    I understand that ...i think having that open line of communication is important for this reason ... I mean I wouldn't have sex with someone who I knew was having sex with others and not use a condom......

    that brings me to another question ...

    what's up with the whole "I can't perform good with a condom on" ?????
     
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    say u met someone u was really feelin ... Do u still act the same way?
     
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    Mar 9, 2017
    Never heard of that honestly unless it's a situation where it doesn't fit right.
     
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    Otherwise he just saying that s--- so he can hit raw tbh
     
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    I'm talkin d-ck stay hard for like .5 seconds with a condom on but b4 u have sex with them they b like "I can go for hours" and it's condoms they bring and hav used before

    is this something I have to worry about with every guy I sleep wit?
     
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    oh I see...
     
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  9. Telly
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    Mar 9, 2017
    Or you just run into some weird mfs
     
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    It's happened with more than 1 guy? Idk then maybe you just make them nervous af.
     
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    lmao I never heard that s--- before I wish I would have thought of that
     
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    Only thing I could tell you is that it feels better raw, and if it feels better, we'll perform better.

    If I'm going raw and it's good sex, I'll pull back from the edge of climax just to extend the sex.

    If I'm wearing a rubber, Ima just get my nut and that's it. It's what poohdini is saying in that he just wants to hit it raw lol.
     
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  13. Mike Tyson
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    Safe sex is definitely a mutual responsibility but we'll put the onus on the female.

    If she's giving it up raw, there are no questions asked (even against our better judgement)

    It's just better tbh. I'll risk it all and live and die by my pull out 100 times out of 100
     
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  14. Lucy
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    Nah. you're right, but i mean, there's 16 hours in a day and I myself feel like i've accomplished nothing if I spend a majority of it just talking via text... it's hard to explain I know i've done it and do it, but it's like you still have a feeling of knowing you should've been more constructive. I dunno its hard to explain. As an example if i'm feeling a girl off tinder and for whatever reason we can't meet face to face within the first 7 days of speaking, it's kinda like I lose interest or will just let it sit for a while and maybe come back later with "hey you going out this weekend? come see me", even if I was really into them.

    But im pretty sure i read something itt about it being a long distance relationship so that's different.
     
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    lmao they don't seem weird when I get to know them
     
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    srs question

    how do u have a one night stand ... I've never had one
     
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    Either, someone plays the other, or its a mutual thing
     
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    what about initiating it?
     
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    Mar 9, 2017
    I hope ur next bf hates kendricks
     
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  20. Telly
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    I'm pretty sure most the time people are drunk, I wouldn't know cause I don't drink, but someone has to make the move
     
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