Oct 9, 2015 Saw my Mum for the first time in a few years a few days ago. She looked terrible. Gained a lot of weight. She's on a lot of meds cause bipolar tho and a side-effect is gaining weight. I don't hate her but I don't really hate anything. It will likely be somewhat of a relief when she dies tho tbh. She's given me a pretty terrible start to life considering where I was born (London). Dunno my dad cause mum is somewhat of a slut.... but also mania = high sex drive. Grew up in care and moved 20+ times cause of her lack of parenting. But yeah I dunno I def wouldn't say I "hate" her.
Oct 9, 2015 I wouldn't say hate, I'm past that stage (I think). I just don't see my dad as my dad. He's a stranger to me.
Oct 9, 2015 i love my mom, she's my main b----, my best friend. and im a daddy's girl cos im his only kid
Oct 9, 2015 My mum left my dad when I was 4. I hated him for a long while when I was younger, I was only ever told bad things about him. When I was about 11 we went to visit his side of the family. They brought my mum, sister and I to where he was staying, just a walk away. He "whispered" to his friend standing next to him 'who are these people?' I think a while after that I realised that there was no point have any form of feeling towards him. He is a stranger to me and I wouldn't hate a random stranger so why would I him? I don't agree with what he did to my mother at all but I have learnt a bit about him earlier this year which makes me more understanding as to what could have pushed him to be the way he was. I have a pretty good relationship with my mum. Sometimes she pisses me off but I love her.
Oct 10, 2015 I really don't know my Dad much & I haven't seen him in like 6 years but it's whatever. I don't hate him, I just don't necessarily care for him either. I love my mom, we have completely different personalities so we tend to fight a lot but that's just typical.
Oct 10, 2015 err thats mentally played with me all my life I only saw my dad on weekends too but thats was a good thing tbh
Oct 10, 2015 I love my mom. She's such a trooper raising 4 kids all by herself. Haven't seen my dad in years.. Miss and love him dearly RIP
Oct 10, 2015 i've hated both at different times in my life, but looking back it's all been bs, even if they were wrong.
Oct 10, 2015 lmao I vaguely remember this but I guess I can't really hate my biological dad, I met him when I was 18 and then stopped that relationship almost immediately, he tries to stay in contact with me on fb and I'm civil with him, but theres not really a relationship there. and I don't hate my mom either, even though I never lived with her, I've always had a relationship with her, as a matter of fact I'm seeing her today! buuuut I've definitely been upset with her and told her I "hated" her, before. but I was young and confused. anyways long story short I love my mom to death and I have someone who raised me like im his own daughter and i love him and would/could never hate him. and as far as my biological father, there's really no feelings there? neutral feelings I guess..
Oct 10, 2015 I know I don't like my mom, but hate is strong. She's such a scicopath and a s--- parent. I would help her when she would be down and out and as soon as she's in a better position she talks down to me like she never had my help. Yesterday I felt my illness get worse and I sighed out of frustration, she took it upon herself to say my attitude stunk and she said I could walk home, thinking I was sighing at her. >I just bought her something to eat >Helped her get the job she has now merely a week ago >Paid her phone bill/groceries until she got that job She's literally done much worse, that's not even at the tip of the iceberg, I'm in the sky, not even close to the d--- thing. She's resentful and jealous of my aunt because I told her my aunt was a better mother to me than she'd ever hope to be. My dad's been in and out of my life. He sucks because he didn't try as hard as he should've to be around. He'd call and text me now-a-days.....I just run with the program. In short both my parents were s---, but mom's much worse if I had to choose.
Oct 10, 2015 I have a good relationship with both. However, my parents split up when I was 7 and I didn't see my dad much after it, just weekends. Honestly, because of that my father and I have more a friendship than a father/son relationship
