Nov 13, 2015 I'm sure you're familiar with the "Victim vs Owner Mindsets". I think being an Owner is more valuable with regard to having a happy life and achieving what you want. I think the good / bad attitude is not really directly related to how well someone's doing. Of course either extreme can be bad.. Being so negative that you don't try anything is not gonna get you far. At the same time, if you're happy-go-lucky and assume everything is awesome all the time, when it's not, is naive someone will will surely eat your lunch.
Nov 14, 2015 A positive and healthy attitude/mindset is going to reduce your anxiety. I have no doubt you'll feel less negative pressure and do better.