Oct 13, 2015

I've had no luck in finding a job though. My plan to take a year off was extended an additional year because I couldn't manage to land anything and have been religiously avoiding a fast food job.

I don't know, im gonna have to think on it. A lot.

 

Oct 13, 2015

f--- fast food jobs.
Anyway i'd say take the job, you gotta do what you gotta do regardless of her situation. If you see her at the job, then just dont say anything, i know its not always that easy but you got this.

 

Oct 15, 2015

landed the job. no f---ing idea if i wanna go thru with it lol

 

Oct 15, 2015

@LasiK It sounds like you should take the job. However it also seems like you should completely cut off contact with her before hand (I know that step would be really difficult to do, but honestly it doesn't sound like having her in your life is going to help anything. Like the others have said, she is basically using you, and it is only going to cause more trouble in the future. If you find a new girl and are still checking up on your old one, even as a friend, you are setting yourself up for a disaster. If she finds a new guy, she'll drop contact with you for him and in-turn you will be in more pain and feel sorry for yourself for wasting all that extra time on her. Continuing contact will most likely make things a lot worse in the long term, and to prevent that it is best to cut her out completely, you'll be happy you did in the long run). Before starting your new job I suggest you text her and let her know that you're cutting off all contact with her (to better yourself, your mental health, and give her the opportunity to have the space she needed) and it's not up for debate. Make sure you give/get complete closure with that last text and don't respond to her anymore. Move on with your life with your new job and meet new people. If your paths cross at your workplace don't stop and have long talks with her, treat her like a stranger (that doesn't mean be rude or mean to her, but act as if she's just some other random person you're passing). It will be awkward the first few times, but eventually she will actually become a stranger to you and it won't be. You'll both continue your lives, and hopefully you end up a happier person overall. That's my advice, do with it what you want.

 

Oct 16, 2015

I don't think she wants anything to do with you, tbh.

 

Oct 16, 2015

Take the job wtf. Especially if you need it. You can't stop your life just so she can feel comfortable. Especially after the circumstances of the breakup with her getting bored of you and wanting to meet other people. If the break up was because you cheated on her or something I'd understand not taking the job to spare her feelings. But the way it its just take the job. Just ignore her and go about your day



Edit: I forgot a very important point. If you're still not over her then don't take the job. It will just prolong the pain

 

Oct 17, 2015

Take the job. If you feel it's too much you can just quit, right?

f--- what she thinks of it tho. Do it for you

 

Oct 17, 2015

What's her Snapchat ?