May 3, 2016

I feel like I should start a relationship advice thread.

 

May 3, 2016

 

May 3, 2016

Or he could just pay for it

 

May 3, 2016

Well you got to talk to them in person to do that I'd suggest gaining more confidence

Working out was pointed out at the start of the thread great suggestion

 

May 3, 2016

Tinder man What if you get that Craigslist killer

 

May 3, 2016

IMPORTANT: It's not about "actively searching" for a girlfriend. You need to focus on personal self improvement and women will notice.

• Working out + daily exercise is above all, most important. This will skyrocket your confidence, genuinely make you happier, and keep you healthy for life. Eat healthy. Don't go on a diet, change your eating habits forever. Opt for salads, stop buying junk food. Stop drinking soda. Avoid carbs at all cost. Even if you're in good shape now, make sure this becomes a lifelong habit. Do it for yourself. If you feel good, people will notice.
• Say yes to everything, especially in college. Go out and do things. This is the only way to meet people (and eventually a girlfriend). Go to events and join groups that interest you. Chances are, there will be girls there. Guess what, now you have something to talk about.
• Groom yourself. Get a haircut regularly. Shave. Floss. Cut your fingernails. Pluck your nose hairs. Pay attention to details. Dress better (check out Men's Fashion on Pinterest, seriously). Become handsome.
• Talk to EVERYONE. Just do it. Your teachers, the guy sitting next to you in class, the cashier at a restaurant, the old man across the street, the cute girl at the party. Even if you're just saying hi. A simple "How are you today?" can go a long way. People love talking about themselves. Make it a habit.
• Smile all the time. Smile at people. Smile when you walk into a room. Avoid the "bad mood Kanye" face at all cost.
• Become passionate about something. Whether it's art, travel, fitness, reading, local entrepreneurship, your major, etc. Find something unique that you love. Don't be the average guy with the same routine. Be interesting. Be open about it. Blog about it. Share it to Facebook. Share your passion with the world.
• Stop masturbating regularly, and especially stop looking at p---. This kills your motivation (to do anything) and p--- literally eats at your soul. You'll notice a spike in testosterone levels and confidence from abstaining from masturbation for even a few days. I'm not saying you have to stop completely, but lower your frequency to once every couple weeks.
• It's not about competing with other guys. It's about competing with your former self. Become a better you.

Attracting women is now the easy part. Be direct. Entertain her. Joke with her. Make her smile. Treat her like a f---ing person. Read social cues. Know when to quit trying. Don't invest all your time and attention into one girl. When texting, use proper grammar.

Most importantly, DON'T BE NEEDY. It's the number one turn off for women, period. Don't barrage her with texts. Don't be overly romantic. Texting her poems and things like "You're so beautiful" is gross and annoying. Don't take her on grandiose expensive first dates. Do something simple like drinks or just meeting up at a party. Show you have respect for yourself. You'll be happy if things work out or not. You're the only person in this world who determines your happiness.

Tinder/Bumble can help. You can read my Tinder guide here. Especially check out the post-match section, which can apply to situations outside of Tinder.




My last bit of advice, is don't get a girlfriend too quickly in college (or at all). You need to experience all different types of women before figuring out what/who you really want. Too many times I've seen an inexperienced guy fall for the first girl who showed him attention, only to regret wasting his time years later. College is about being free, discovering yourself, and meeting new people. Don't tie yourself down, especially when you're young. I spent virtually my entire college career in two different long term relationships, and I've spent the last 3 years finally being single, making up for lost time.

 

May 3, 2016

If you feel that you are in a rut with your dating, try just refreshing your appearance and your basic demeanor. I find that I have more luck utilizing different speech patterns than just using the same pickups lines or general demeanor. There is nothing wrong with being unorthodox in your approach. If you are a low key guy and not necessarily a "social butterfly" then being kind of weird or "unique" is not a bad thing.

I was kinda always loud and boisterous during high school and college so this wasn't an issue for me.

 

May 3, 2016

Im a single girl. Taking applications immediately. Black guys only pls tyvm.

 

May 3, 2016

getting a girl in college is easy... you can strike up conversations by talking about anything school related (homework, plays, good restaurants, dorm life, etc)

after class you should try to get the numbers of at least 2 chicks and then text or call them later in the week about something minor like homework or asking her if she wants to go to the café and eat. She'd love not having to eat alone. also asking females for directions is a great way to start a conversation. you can also ask female classmates to help you with your hw... its a good and less creepy way of getting her to your dorm room rather than flat out asking her "hey would you like to come to my dorm for a bit and chill". or u could meet at the library.

from there its a matter of meeting different women with different interests...this is easily achieved by going to different places like the art gallery or the gym, the "hang out spot", or campus events if youre feeling a bit more confident.

I hope this helps...good luck!

 

May 3, 2016

no trolling missy, serious thread

- DP

 

May 3, 2016

100% serious DP. i need a boyfriend asap

 

May 3, 2016

 

May 3, 2016

You gotta kik?

 

May 4, 2016

whats your kik

 

May 4, 2016

I don't have one but I do have a snapchat and a groupme

 

May 4, 2016

pm me that sc

 

May 4, 2016

LIT

 

May 4, 2016

Remember we're friends