Dec 11, 2016 The moment of rejection is temporary. You'll be fine. I'm married and my wife still rejects me sometimes.
Dec 11, 2016 The more you put yourself out there the less a rejection seems like the end of the world and the more you realize how little this one specific girl matters. If she's gonna toy with you and lead you on like that she's probably not worth your time anyway. Obvs there's gonna be a little bit of games from both sides when you're in the early stages but it's only fun/worthwhile to a certain point. There's a point where you learn to let it not hurt your pride or self-esteem -- it's OK to be a bit bummed about it but as long as you know you're dope and there's tons more girls out there you're good.
Dec 11, 2016 Some fire asf responses itt. It was just weird how we went from talking to just nothing lol. But d---, homies in here getting rejected on proposals gives some perspective. And the homie MARRIED now. I been telling all my family who asks "why dont you have a GF" that I'm waiting to hit a few goals. Graduate (last week of school), own my own car (done), get my own place (next goal) and become a dog owner (after the own place). Once I hit those, I'll seriously start networking to meet more women.. As in having my friends bring out girls I know of. Atm I could do that, but I want to make sure I have enough to show for my age tbh.
Dec 11, 2016 yeah, girls are very flaky like that. i had a girl on tinder recently who really seemed interested in meeting (she told me she wanted to meet up) in person. she would communicate much more than most girls on tinder and she didn't take 454545 hours to respond to a d--- message. in the last week or so i haven't heard anything from her. and i don't want to blow up her phone, so i only sent a couple messages since and i just said oh well. its soooo strange man. you'll be talking to them and things seem to be going well, and out of the f---ing blue, they'll just randomly drop off the face of the planet
Dec 11, 2016 I always wonder why that happens lol. It doesn't happen with any guys I know (as in they dont do it to me or other peeps) it seems to be something women predominately do. I have no idea what could have happened. You think it's worth sending another message to see if maybe she just fell asleep or just idk got sidetracked? She hasn't unadded me to snapchat and viewed my other story. I'm confused lol. Idrc either way.
Dec 11, 2016 yes, for the most part, being flaky is something that women do. now that's not to say a guy never does it, but its a term that is associated with women. i have no idea why it happens. i wish someone could explain it. i'm far from an expert on women (they're a complete mystery to me), but i think its worth sending another message. if she doesn't reply after that, i'd just leave it be. i've never used bumble, but from what i've heard its similar to tinder. most women on tinder are so unresponsive that it usually doesn't amount to anything. most girls on tinder will exchange a few messages, and then just vanish. but i gotta keep in mind most of them probably aren't taking it seriously
Dec 11, 2016 @FBG President Looks don't really matter unless you're in middle school. I guess you're in your twenties, right? 5/10 is not that bad. Just make sure to take reallyyy good care of your hygiene. Be a nice and a chill person to be around. Just try to wear fresh clothes, you don't have to spend a s--- ton of money to look fly. In general, just take care of your hygiene and dress nice. I can help you with that, real talk feel free to pm me. Females are wiser when they're older and most of them are looking for a good guy, not a model. Once you get that out of your head things will work out for you.
Dec 11, 2016 The comradery in the Futurehive runs deep. Ima hit up your PM's once I get finished with this paper. And yeah, I'm 22. I'll pm you the other stuff tho.
