How many of you have friends of the opposite sex?

Started by TimmyT, Apr 11, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

Do you have friends of the opposite sex?

  1. Yes

    34 vote(s)
    87.2%
  2. No

    5 vote(s)
    12.8%
  1. J WALK
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    J WALK TECHN9CIAN

    Apr 12, 2015
    I usually stick my name in most of my home girls
    But there still friends and only friends
     
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  2. icecube
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    icecube West Coast is the Best Coast

    Apr 12, 2015
    Growing up I had equal make and female friends but I felt closer to the girls therefore I'd have a more meaningful friendship with them.
    To this day, the group of 10ish close friends I had 10 years ago I am still in semi regular contact with 2 of them. Both are girls.

    Now, in my adult life I have a very small group of close friends and again it's 50/50.
     
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  3. Goku187
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    Apr 12, 2015
    why would I hang out with girls?? Wouldn't want to get cooties!! ;D
     
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  4. Titan Slayer
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    Apr 12, 2015
    I met a girl who had pretty the same interests in me like exact same music taste (we would always introduce each other to different artists too) exact same sense of humour which was GOAT & other s---

    We haven't spoken in early two years though : (

    Sucks tbh, I'd say I was close to her back then, more than I am with any of my current friends now
     
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  5. Creation
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    Creation By Any Means

    Apr 12, 2015
    I have alot of friends who are girls, the great thing about it is, they introduce you to their friends & put a good word in for you.


    Sometimes dudes can annoy the s--- out of me with their egos & the fact they think they can have every girl they want... but i guess it goes both ways as girls can be the same at times, but dudes get desperate where woman are concerned, spewing out bs to get the girls to like them, but having alot of friends who are girls gives you the comfort you should have around all women.
     
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  6. reservoirGod
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    reservoirGod reckless adventurer.

    Apr 12, 2015
    Honestly Timmy... and take this in the spirit which it is intended. I think the best thing for you to do is make friends with a lesbian.

    That way you could get call girls together and instead of costing you twice as much for two girls you could split the bill and pay half.

    You could pretend to be a couple and get couple massages with happy endings... That would be great bonding time. Maybe you could even convince her to be a cam girl and direct her and her lesbian girlfriend's on cam.

    I'm sure this would help gain insight to a woman's perspective and maybe give you more empathy for them.

    s---t, I have lots of friends that are girls... and now that I gave you this advice, I might even try the same thing!
     
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  7. Fazers
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    Apr 12, 2015
    have a couple of cam girls, amp girls, escorts, and strippers that i'm pretty friendly with
     
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  8. Old Account
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    Apr 12, 2015
    beat me to it f---er
     
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  9. Fazers
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    Apr 12, 2015
    they only let me hang when i pay for them :emoji_slight_frown:
     
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  10. Old Account
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    Apr 12, 2015
    On topic -

    I have a couple that I talk to on a regular basis. I don't understand the middle school " it's impossible to remain friends with hot girls" logic. I know girls who are gorgeous - but their personality or bad taste turn me off. Although what can be difficult is remaining friends with a girl who is both beautiful and a great person. It all depends on the circumstances surrounding the situation
     
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  11. because the internet
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    Apr 13, 2015
    why does everyone keep saying this? it's working for me :idk:
     
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  12. WPG
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    WPG sxn80 Rory Gilmore

    Apr 13, 2015
    that's because they don't want to f--- you, luke.
     
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  13. because the internet
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    Apr 13, 2015
    well... aren't you a little rude. :;'(:
     
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  14. lil uzi vert stan
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    Apr 13, 2015
    tbh, i was friends with a lot of (fairly attractive) girls up until i moved in with my gf... now theyve conveniently drifted away

    i think its partly just the way things go, but there could also be a subconscious thing goin on. after all, im v lovable
     
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  15. Pablo
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    Pablo Dragon Z-azou

    Apr 13, 2015
    My best friend is a girl, and we're not attracted by each other AT ALL, like we were brother and sister... I just can't explain it :jordan:
     
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  16. reservoirGod
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    reservoirGod reckless adventurer.

    Apr 13, 2015
    I thought I had the samething going on for 2 years... I hung out with this chick all the time and treated her like a bro. She was funny and down to do fun s---. I banged her friends she hooked me up with and she had a boyfriend who worked far away and was cool with me always hanging out with her. I didn't find out until years later when we reunited and got drunk and she blew me, that she was always in love with me. I had no idea. I haven't talk to her at all since then because I was seeing someone else at the time and everything got weird and dicey fast.
     
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  17. Disclosure
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    Disclosure R&B Stan

    Apr 13, 2015
    I used to, but I'm more misogynistic nowadays tbh, so no not really, mostly acquaintances now. Nothing wrong with having a couple, but don't get into the habit of hanging with women more then men imo.

    If it's any consolation for you brahs ; it is possible to get out the friendzone - have done it several times. Alcohol and improving /reinventing yourself can help alot! :cam2:
     
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  18. Pablo
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    Pablo Dragon Z-azou

    Apr 13, 2015
    Interesting story, but i don't think it will go that way with her, we've already talk about our relation without discomfort, it seems to be clear... At least i think so :wow5:
     
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  19. reservoirGod
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    reservoirGod reckless adventurer.

    Apr 13, 2015
    I'm just saying. Knew the chick for a decade and never thought of her like that once and she told all her friends that she wasn't attracted to me at all and gave them her blessings when she carried a torch for me.
     
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  20. Pablo
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    Pablo Dragon Z-azou

    Apr 13, 2015
    Wow it's really surprising :emoji_flushed:
     
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