Feb 25, 2017 your friend sounds like a hater ......did he give a specific example of what made her a hoe? @Groovy Tony
Feb 25, 2017 She wants to be with me because she said it but she's really hurt about her ex of 4 years. I have alot of trust issues and she does too. That's why we aren't committed right now but as time goes by when we grow closer and heal those wounds I definitely plan to be with her exclusively. Yea trust is gonna be huge I just have to build it with her
Feb 25, 2017 No just "aye bro I think the girl you talkin to is a thot the girl im f---in is her roommate and she said she was being a hoe before christmas break using the room". I told him I started talking to her early January and I would give her the benefit of the doubt. He said I'm right for doing that cus she's a cool girl but to just be careful cus of that and us going to different schools
Feb 25, 2017 ive met guys who use the word hoe to describe a female who wouldnt give it up to them so they were a little salty about that lol which is why i say I wouldnt think too much about what he said...and for him to randomly tell you about what she did before you and her were talking is slightly childish. by your definition of cheating and what being a hoe is....has she given you any reason to think that in a relationship she would cheat on you? or are you hearing that currently she is talking to multiple guys?
Feb 25, 2017 No I haven't heard that she's been talking to multiple guys. The only slight reason she's given me is she likes to party with her friends when she isn't working. Nothing's wrong with partying but I know some "party girls" who aren't dateable types to say the least. But even with that slight reason I still don't feel like she would cheat if we were to commit to each other
Feb 25, 2017 i know lots of females who go out partying with their friends while theyre single but when they get in a relationship they want to spend more of that time with their boyfriend.
Feb 25, 2017 also just cause she goes to parties doesnt mean she cheats ..just means shes in college lol
Feb 25, 2017 I used to think like you Groovy until I was enlightened. Just like men, how we say "yo she got a fat a---", females talk about/guess how big some guy's d-ck is or how sexy they are. Society has painted a double standards to which us alpha males can f--- all we want, but when one girl f---s one guy that isn't her boyfriend , she's a thot. A good amount of girls (I've known) only date boys to f--- and date them so they dont seem like a hoe if they ever get "exposed. Not every girl who parties ends up getting gangbanged afterwards they just want to have a good time. Just know females like sex too bro. Dont shy away just cause she's had sex with a few people while being single.
Feb 25, 2017 Nah but real talk @Groovy Tony this is more of a singular personality trait that you can find in any gender more so than a norm or generalization. I mean sex is a good thing after all. It's good to bring in your own ethics and principles if it were something like a more serious relationship but aye man just have fun and don't put self-righteousness into diversion.
Feb 25, 2017 Yea I mean sex is a beautiful thing I like sex too. I just kinda got unsure because what she said brought me back to what my homie said. I'm not self-righteous whatsoever im no better or worse than anyone else in this world
Feb 25, 2017 It may seem like I think that way but I don't. Sex is universal and should be equally pursued by both genders so it's nothing in that angle. I grew up with a single mother and two sisters so I have a great compassion and understanding of women in general. The title may have been worded badly. I'm not shying away whatsoever I just wanted to make sure it wasnt a red flag considering what my homie told me. Im starting to think the homie has the mindset you're referring to tho and I feel like I let it rub off on me a bit. But yea
Feb 25, 2017 I relate to you too, dont have any male figure around, and I started getting taught "game" around middle school, but before I learned to be polite and sweet and caring to a female no matter what. Just like shah said, n----s get mad they can't f--- so they throw around names to make themselves feel better. If he was actually right/concerned with your well being with this female, he would of approached you seriously, like "tony, I dont really think she's the one for you man"
