Sep 20, 2015 Yeah definitely. If he's fine with it.. btw @Arch Dogg gives 2 examples that are very different. Married with kids etc or 2 months.. there is a lot in between (like together for a few years) that would make it less easy to make a decision @Immy I don't know the background but that doesn't seem like a big deal tbh
Sep 20, 2015 Just tell the whole f---in story. How did they break up, how good of friends are you, how long ago was it?
Sep 20, 2015 n-----.... 1. They broke up last November i think. 2. We tight he aint my best friend but hes my n----- 3. He was texting another girl and tried to get nudes and she found out and dumped him lmao they only went out for 3 months so its not like they were in it for the long term
Sep 20, 2015 Haha I've got Arch on ignore so I can't see his s--- but I'm speaking pretty much strictly about what @Immy's scenario is which is 3 months that's why I think it's more in the friends hands.
Sep 20, 2015 It's a sticky situation because yeah they obviously won't married etc and him askin for nudes etc ain't great on his part but if hes the type @Immy alluded to then even asking if it's cool could create a shitstorm just as much as jusy goin for it would.
Sep 20, 2015 I'd f--- him up though he skinny af. But if I do anything I know there is gonna be tension in my group and they'll all probably hate me
Sep 20, 2015 How much of a friend are you to him if you're gonna bash him for bein pissed off about f---in an ex? With all due respect but I feel it's a decent question right now ha
Sep 20, 2015 Oh yeah you're fine pretty much. I'd still ask your friend and see if it was good. My friend (not anymore) didn't even wait a day to ask out my ex.
Sep 20, 2015 Ehh it's not the route I'd take if he was a friend but I feel you've got a pretty decent amount of responses to make an educated decision on the matter
Sep 20, 2015 LOL @ #3. f--- that guy, what a piece of s---. He doesn't sound like a person you'll be friends with post-college anyway. But if he's in your circle of friends and is close with other people and you think it'll be a weird situation, I'd say it's probably not worth it unless you think this has potential to be more than a fling, which is definitely worth more than a semi-friendship with some dude who asks other chics for nudes while he's in a relationship. It's a year later so it shouldn't really matter though honestly. I will say from experience: I casually dated a girl for a month or two in college and then we ended things because we had both recently gotten out of long term relationships (1.5 years+) and weren't ready for something bigger. She started dating someone in my group of friends about a month later. I considered him a friend but he wasn't in my closest circle. I was pissed at him for a few months but got over it and our relationship is exactly the same as it was before. I mostly felt betrayed because they kinda did it behind my back and she basically lied to me even though I knew I wasn't ready for a relationship.
