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Is it okay to date your friend's ex?

Started by threee, Sep 9, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Big Mitch
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    Sep 9, 2015
    i did it awhile ago and it worked out for me...

    i no longer have that friend but it was worth it. he's a piece of s--- anyways.
     
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  2. Poohdini
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    Sep 9, 2015
    Honestly he can't be that close of a friend if you're even considering it, especially since she "devastated" him.
     
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  3. threee
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    Sep 9, 2015
    Nah he is, but it was sorta his fault that she left him so I don't hold that against her
     
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  4. Michael Myers
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    Sep 9, 2015
    Kind of in this situation.. we're not really sure what to do. Nothing happened yet, but we did talk about it. I think it really depends on the situation, no 'yes' or 'no'.

    Friendship will most likely change, at least at first.
     
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  5. Worm
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    Sep 9, 2015
    What's the full story? Or did you b--- her already and trying to validate it? You did, didn't you...you motorboatin son of a b----
     
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  6. threee
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    Sep 9, 2015
    d---
     
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  7. threee
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    He just randomly started avoiding her at school for a week and a half and not talking to her in general. Like wtf
     
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    So he avoided her for a week, then she broke up with him and it devastated him? Gotta be more to the story than that.
     
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  9. JFK
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    Sep 9, 2015
    Usually ruins her for me, but depends on the situation.
     
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  10. threee
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    Yeah I don't know :idk:
     
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  11. M.I.C.
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    Sep 9, 2015
    No. I've done it before to a good friend (literally while they were dating... that scummy) and he caught us and I never would again. It didn't ruin our friendship because I cut her off and it only took him about a week to realize she was a worthless hoe and do the same. We hugged it out and I'll never do anything like that again, one of my biggest regrets.
     
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  12. Ordinary Joel
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    Ordinary Joel Happiness begins when selfishness ends

    Sep 10, 2015
    If you're serious about it talk to your boy about it. He might respect your honesty.
     
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  13. Prosciutto
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    Sep 10, 2015
    She dumps you then you lose the girl and the friend... Don't do it
     
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  14. Shae
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    Sep 10, 2015
    She sounds messy. She knows you're a close friend of one of her exes. That's almost thot status.

    Don't do it bruh.
     
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  15. Reed Richards
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    Dont do it someone i know almost died over that s---! I dont know ur friend and he may not be a f---ing psychopath like the guy i know but dont its not worth it.
     
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  16. Cortex
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    Sep 10, 2015
    I was in a similar situation just a few months back except we was just f---ing, not dating. Girl was my best friends ex, they'd been together for 2 years, split up 2 years ago, me and her started talking, talking led to f---ing, as soon we f-----, I knew I f----- up. Told him straightaway the next day, he was fine with it as he has moved on. We're still good mates and nothing seems to have changed.

    If you like the girl and want to start dating, explain the situation to your friend. A lot better than going behind his back. You'll just feel guilt ridden.
     
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  17. threee
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    Sep 10, 2015
    Yeah I want going to go behind his back lol, I was just wondering if it was too dodge of a question to ask (which it looks like it is)
     
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  18. Cortex
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    If they only split up recently, I would avoid it. f--- losing a good friend over a girl. But if you do want to date/f--- her, let ya boy know first, he'll respect you a s--- load more
     
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