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LasiK break up 2015 :(

Started by LasiK, Sep 29, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. GMV
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    GMV

    Sep 30, 2015
    Think about it.. Lasik started with her in 10th grade and now she wants to break up with him in her senior year.. he robbed her of her "hoe years" and only has this last year to go and be a hoe with her highschool friends before they all go off to college. I think she'll hoe out for a while and be back begging Lasik to take her to prom. Quote me on it :mynig2:
     
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  2. Mike Tyson
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    Mike Tyson big cuntry's alias

    Sep 30, 2015
    Yup, it's definitely not going to happen overnight, take all the time you need buddy.

    A friend of mine is a doctor now, but he did his medical degree outside of the US despite knowing he wanted to eventually practice there. He was in very deep with a girl he met at his uni, and after a summer apart (they both went home to their respective cities for the holidays), she came back and just broke it off with him out of the blue. I had a bunch of long conversations with the guy - he's one of my best friends, someone I consider a brother. And all I could really tell him was to focus the energy on bettering himself, not constantly replaying things and trying to find out "why". Give her a reason to regret the breakup in retrospect. Well anyways, some times you say things to people, and they really take them to heart. That was the case with him.

    He ended up focusing his energy on writing his USMLE (an equivalency exam that international students need to write for a chance to work in the States). After an incredible grind, he ended up scoring in the 99th percentile. By the end of it, nothing about the situation with the girl really mattered.

    Take that story how you want to, but just know that this is the worst you're ever going to feel. It only gets better from here.

    :)

    PS: My friend would eventually match at Cleveland Clinic, the 4th best program for international residents in the United States. He had a fling after that particular breakup, never anything serious. The guy couldn't be happier right now though, life really does move on.
     
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  3. Narsh
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    Narsh

    Sep 30, 2015
    If anything this sounds like her needing space to get her head straight. It's not like you were negligent in some way, except through ignorance. And she was through her silence as well. I say there's still hope but imma romantic

    Until then tho, pull a future with JD. Drop a 4 peat. U got the talent, find the drive

    And then enjoy the spoils

     
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  4. Narsh
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    Narsh

    Sep 30, 2015
    "I watched my broad give up on me like I'm average"

    smh they be like that sometimes
     
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  5. Mike Tyson
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    Sep 30, 2015
    highkey, i would be okay with ciara giving up on me if it meant i got to smash first :dkk:
     
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  6. Guma
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    Guma

    Sep 30, 2015
    I had similiar situation with my then girlfriend two years ago. Just as almost everyone said don't focus on this whole situation. Try focus on things that you like and enjoy. You must stay positive and don't let that negative energy get you. Chase your dreams and try forget it. Don't repeat my mistakes. At the time I was completly devastated and I felt like everything is over. Just recently I got back to normal and started enjoying every second of my life. So best thing you can do is forget about it ASAP. Keep your head up.
     
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  7. Mike Tyson
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    Mike Tyson big cuntry's alias

    Sep 30, 2015
    Hey man, look at it this way: Kanye turned his heartbreak in to my second favourite album of all time :D
     
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  8. Narsh
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    And name the kid Hasman Jr
     
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  9. Guma
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    Sep 30, 2015
    And few years later he is with Kim though.:hmem:
     
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  10. Mike Tyson
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    Sep 30, 2015
    russell can dream about raising that n----- too

    :dkk:
     
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  11. Mike Tyson
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    Sep 30, 2015
    s--- always finds a way to work out. :hmem:
     
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  12. Enigma
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    Enigma Civil liberties > Police safety

    Sep 30, 2015
    From what I've seen teen years are just not a good time period to have a serious relationship. People are growing up/maturing, meeting new people, making new friends, concentrating on school, participating in sports, looking/applying to colleges, partying etc. It's such a hectic/chaotic time period in our lives that a serious relationship can get in the way of many things. Like you said, I don't think it's right that she waited so last minute to tell you but at the same time she probably did that because she didn't want to hurt you. Due to how long you guys were together, it's going to be tough to get over but like others have said life does go on. Focus on your goals, reach out to other friends, look at this as an opportunity rather than the end of something.

    I'm currently dating someone 2 years younger than me, we've been dating for about 5 months now & we're kind of experiencing a similar problem already. I'm in my 1st year of college so I'm not extremely busy but she's a junior in highschool & is taking numerous AP classes while trying to maintain higher than a 3.5 GPA, she's on 2 soccer teams & not to mention our friend groups are entirely different. The relationship is already getting in the way of things we both want to do & we're both starting to come to that realization. My point is that, it's hard to maintain a relationship at this age with so many things going on.
     
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  13. Mike Tyson
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    i hope for your sake that it lasts bruh


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  14. Enigma
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    Enigma Civil liberties > Police safety

    Sep 30, 2015
    Lmao. We'll see, we're both pretty understanding people so even if we do break it off, we'll probably still talk & mess around lol just won't be serious.
     
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    Translucent I just slapped Dre

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  16. LasiK
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    LasiK d-mn fine coffee

    Sep 30, 2015
    gonna go play hotline bling outside her bedroom window so she knows how i feel
     
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  17. Charlie Work
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    Charlie Work Level 5 Goblin

    Sep 30, 2015
    Sounds like your first serious relationship. Always tough getting over that one. Better now than finding out post-marriage/pregnancy. If she was 1 in a million, there are 19 more like her in California. Ones you'll meet at an age where they aren't still figuring out who they are as desperately as they are in high school. Until then, focus on yourself. Good luck, bro.
     
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  18. LasiK
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    LasiK d-mn fine coffee

    Sep 30, 2015

    i made this beat tape back in 2013 meant to encapsulate that first month or two after meeting my girl. forgot about this s--- until now. im a f---ing simp right now

    dont browse my bandcamp tho all that s--- dated as f---
     
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  19. Ordinary Joel
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    Ordinary Joel Happiness begins when selfishness ends

    Oct 1, 2015
    Genuinely hope you come out better from this LasiK.

    I've never experienced a relationship break up myself but I'd imagine it'd be painful. :emoji_slight_frown:
     
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  20. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    Oct 1, 2015
    The problem with dating really young girls is they get bored once they feel they've settled down. There may not be a thing wrong in a relationship, but that doesn't matter to them. They feel like they still have a life to live etc and the relationship is restricting them or something. They may even regret ending it after a while but yeah, a serious relationship with a really young girl in western society is pretty rare to end up well. There are of course young thots who are over all the hookups and actually wouldn't mind settling down if they feel the guy is worth it. In the end though she just got bored. It is partially your fault too for not keeping things exciting to make her feel that she'd be missing out on something if she did leave you.

    As for getting over it meeting new girls is the only way. No matter how much you don't want to do that. Everyone is replaceable and there are other people who can replicate the same feelings and emotions someone else did. It's not unique to that person. There's no easy happy answer to any of this s---
     
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