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  1. Mimi
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    Mimi the art of doing nothing

    Jan 31, 2016
    Gonna agree with @theg, be up front or just forget it.

    You're a in a real tricky situation. With the time you are away now it gives her ample opportunity to meet somebody else and after coming out of a LDR what she probably wants more than anything is for someone that can be there for her physically. Being that you have known her for a while might work in your favour but to have just had a relationship where she was apart from her S/O to then jumping in to another like that doesnt sound ideal.
     
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  2. K9l
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    K9l Colder than a polar bear's toenails

    Jan 31, 2016
    u gotta make ur move early bro

    u cant just be friends w them for 1.5 years, theyll think of u as a friend that way.

    make ur move during the first 1-2 months or just accept the fact that ur friends imo
     
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