Serious Need advice on going from friends to lovers

Started by furface, Jan 31, 2016, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. CODEiNE DEMON
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    CODEiNE DEMON One foot stuck in the tarpit of my ways

    Jan 31, 2016
    u rite im being dumb
     
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  2. Thad Castle
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    Thad Castle dafuq u sayin

    Jan 31, 2016

    QQ how interesting teach me more brah
     
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  3. CODEiNE DEMON
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    CODEiNE DEMON One foot stuck in the tarpit of my ways

    Jan 31, 2016
    I was gonna apologize for misinterpreting that post but no female would willingly socialize with someone who uses "QQ" so I'm back to assuming you're a r--ist again
     
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  4. Thad Castle
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    Thad Castle dafuq u sayin

    Jan 31, 2016
    ok
     
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  5. FLORIDA MAN
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    Lol what the f--- is @Skippy doing in here?

    Does op want advice on how to stay a virgin through college?
     
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  6. furface
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    furface

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    g.d. it fam I was going to f---ing do it I swear to god but it was not the right time. She jumps straight into catching up so I don't have a chance to start my piece, then in that process of catching up I learn that she's currently worried about a mutual friend of ours that she's been hooking up with but now thinks is falling too hard for her. She doesn't want to be in an actual relationship with him, and she asked me what I thought. I told her that if she doesn't want a relationship with him and is worried about him getting too attached then she should stop hooking up with him. The entire time she's mentioning how weird it is for her because they had just been friends up until this point. So really I got all the cards stacked against me on initiating the convo I wanted to initiate. She says after a bit more banter that she needs to shower and study because she has two tests this week, but wants to Facetime again later in the week. Honestly the whole thing made me want to abort mission, but I know I'm not going to actually get over her unless it's clear enough. I guess I'll try and have the conversation when we talk later in the week? I have a feeling I know what the response will be, but I need to hear it anyway. :sad1:
     
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    theg got that pma

    Jan 31, 2016
    smh
     
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  8. Dking002
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    Jan 31, 2016
    f--- her
     
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  9. kris
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    LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
     
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    reD10S The real is back

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  11. Lucy
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    Lucy #1

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    :lmaooo:
     
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  12. Old Account
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    Jan 31, 2016
    Really curious as to why the same circle jerk follows me around and comments on everything I say

    Imagine holding a grudge on a hip-hop discussion forum

    I'll pray for you and hope you decide to do something better with your life :)
     
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  13. kayoh
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    OP, the real question is are you gonna b--- tho?
     
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  14. theg
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    theg got that pma

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    no ones following you you f---ing narcissist. i entered the thread well after you posted, i didnt even know you were in here before that. coco came in literally hours after you last posted. i guess we both happened to notice you give the absolute worst advice which hilarious. no ones following you you f---ing r-----.
     
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  15. Juney Dark
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    Juney Dark Art Deco Killer Mango

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    You have a lot to learn my friend
     
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  16. Lucy
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    You do realize to follow you around I'd have to be like 100x more active than what I currently am. It's a funny post by Theg, because you're 16 giving advice on relationships and s---. You're too young.
     
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  17. Mimi
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    Mimi the art of doing nothing

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    Is it just him she doesn't want to be in a relationship with or doesnt want a relationship in general?

    If you do go through with letting her know how you truly feel just make sure to push the fact that you dont want your feelings to get in between what you already share. You dont want her to feel weird but because you are good friends you want to be upfront and honest with her. Facetiming while telling her is probably for the best so you can see her reactions to the info you are giving her.

    In a way it's kind of good she told you this, just so you can be a bit more prepared for the worst =(
     
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  18. furface
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    furface

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    It's not that doesn't want a relationship period, more that she doesn't want a relationship with this guy. But it just felt like if I were to try anything that I might get the same reaction. I'm back to not being sure if I should tell her how I feel before I get back in person, but if I do it over facetime then I'll probably wait a bit for that situation to resolve itself so the idea of friends becoming lovers when she doesn't want them to isn't so prominent in her mind.
     
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  19. Thad Castle
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    Thad Castle dafuq u sayin

    Feb 1, 2016
    you aint got teh answers
     
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  20. Bojack
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    Its easier to focus on just f---in her :pepluv:
     
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