Serious Need Job Advice (Racist Manager who hates me) Do I Quit?

Started by Immy, Aug 25, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. FLORIDA MAN
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    Aug 25, 2015
    She's probably not racist, you're probably just a s--- employee
     
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    Aug 25, 2015
    :emoji_slight_frown: People telling me I should be a team manager, I train new people all the time
     
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  5. FLORIDA MAN
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    Train them on how to be s---? You're a cancer to the work environment. Spreading your s--- habits. She has every right to treat you like the s--- employee you are
     
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  6. Immy
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    :mjcry::mjcry::mjcry::mjcry::mjcry:
     
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  7. Ordinary Joel
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    Aug 26, 2015
    Try finding a new job if this manager is giving you grief.
     
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  8. icecube
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    Aug 26, 2015
    I'm a manager myself so let me offer you some advice.

    For now, deal with it but WRITE A DIARY. Be on the lookout for another job, don't leave somewhere without having something to replace it.

    With enough evidence, you'll be able to raise an official grievance to her superior. Evidence well be what you have collected in diary format (including days, times and exact quotes). If she is like this with anyone else, try to get them involved as well. You'll find if it's just your word against hers with no real proof, she'll get away with it and make your life worse. If you're not happy with the outcome of that grievance, you can speak against it to the next person up. Anything official must be done I writing.

    Ask yourself this though; why is she doing it? Take a real long look at yourself in the mirror, compare yourself to your colleagues, does she have any reason or justification at all to treat you differently? Sometimes it's easier to change your approach and make yourself fit in than to go down any other route.
     
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    Cyreides gfy

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  10. underground
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    Aug 27, 2015
    i hate my boss too but i know if i quit it wouldnt do
    any real damage to him or the company
    and in a way it would be letting him win
    and would f--- me out of a steady check
    racist or not s-----y bosses are common
     
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