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  1. Lil Squeed
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    Lil Squeed French Montana Stan

    May 20, 2015
    I may have been wrong here...
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  2. Oldboy
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    Oldboy

    May 20, 2015
    ofc you cut her off lol

    f--- that c----
     
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  3. Packman
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    Packman

    May 20, 2015
    If she's cheated, she's got to go
     
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  4. Cyreides
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    Cyreides gfy

    May 20, 2015
    I'm sorry bruh.

    As for what to do, honestly, dump her a---. If she's cheated once, doesn't matter if she admitted it, she's probably gonna do it again and I don't think you can trust her.
     
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  5. Bojack
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    Bojack

    May 20, 2015
    You d--- right it hurts..
    Even the thought of my ex touchin another mans crotch f---in hurts..
    If you want my opinion you should cut things off now and never bother with this b---- again..
    No matter how tough this is, be strong now even if it hurts, otherwise you will face this again in the future..
    I dont want to say this but honesty in this matter is like a f---in ash in your eyes..
    She did it once, she will again.. If she had real feelings for you she wouldnt even think of cheating..
    There is no reason at all to forgive her
     
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  6. rapmusik
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    rapmusik 4

    May 20, 2015
    big thanks to everyone here. I've read all your responses and I think you're right (generally). She's cheated once, she'll probably do it again...

    hurts like a b----.. but I'm probably gonna cut things off.
     
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  7. Mild Bobby Sauce
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    Mild Bobby Sauce 3 apples tall

    May 20, 2015
    its obvious what you need to do: get her an s80 account and we'll roast her
     
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  9. Mild Bobby Sauce
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    Mild Bobby Sauce 3 apples tall

    May 20, 2015
    ok. So as somebody who has f----- up a relationship SERIOUSLY and managed to repair it,you gotta make some serious choices here and evaluate how you feel about her

    Is this a person that can honestly see yourself learning to trust again?
    Do you feel strongly enough for her to put another 7-9 months in trying to fix this at the bare minimum? Because betrayals like these hang in the air honestly forever and it takes serious time to jump those hurdles.
    Why did this girl cheat? Is there at least a semi-valid reason here? Did she find something in somebody else that you weren't giving her or did she just want a little new d-ck and excitement?
    Does she even still want to be with you? Is this her weak way of trying to leave, with her hoping that you'll be so angry that you break up with her.
    Theres so many more questions you gotta ask yourself man but honestly don't put the both of you through this if you aren't at least 90% sure that 1) you want to be with her 2) you can forgive her and 3) you believe she can change. Also, does SHE want to change? If not, theres nothing you can do. Sorry man.
     
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  10. Michael Myers
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    May 20, 2015
    I did it once, forgive a girl. We broke up but a few months later got back together. Honestly, it never was the same again. No matter what, I always had a little voice in my head saying this b---- cheated on you. We broke up about 1,5 year ago now, and that was one of the reasons, I could never 100% trust her again. So there might be a chance things will get better with you, but I agree with everybody and say dump her.
     
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  11. Nori
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    Nori ☺ Deadpool is my deformed bousin☺

    May 20, 2015
    f--- slitting her throat, cut this b----'s head off!
     
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  12. Mimi
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    Mimi the art of doing nothing

    May 20, 2015
    Drop her like a bag of dirt. If she had any respect for you or your relationship she would not have hooked up with another guy in the first place.
    You say she hasn't done it before, why would she want to admit that to someone she wanted to start a relationship with? It wasn't a really drunken, one off thing but going on for a couple of weeks?!
    She's a b---- and you dont deserve to have somebody make you feel like s---. If she wants to hook up with people fine but then she should be single. Why drag you down with her?

    *edit* Also if you let this go she will see what kind of lines she can cross with you and probably try to push them again. She would have only admitted it for her own sake and feelings of guilt. Not for your benefit
     
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  13. rapmusik
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    rapmusik 4

    May 20, 2015
    so today has been pretty s-----y. I found out that my girls been seeing some other dude for a few weeks... We've only been seeing each other for about 7 months but it f---ing hurts.

    Thing is, I didn't discover this on my own. No random person broke the news to me. She herself told me. She said we needed to talk and explained the whole situation.

    I've been cheated on before but they've never admitted to doing anything completely. They just apologize. But they wouldn't have apologized if I hadn't found out.

    So here's my dilemma. I don't know if I should cut things off or not. She had the decency to admit it to me but she still f----- around my back. What do you think I should do? Would appreciate legitimate, serious answers please... I'm honestly stuck on how to approach this
     
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  14. LasiK
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    LasiK d-mn fine coffee

    May 23, 2015
    Leave her Fam'ron. It's pretty simple. I've been cheated on and the relationship will never be the same again. Don't slip into denial. She was unfaithful to your relationship.
     
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  15. The Product
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    The Product

    May 20, 2015
    you will always think about it even if you dont want to. its tough but unless you can deal with the thoughts you should cut ties. There is plenty of people out there not just the one that cheated on you
     
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  16. Disclosure
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    Disclosure R&B Stan

    May 20, 2015
    Shes had another mans d-ck in her mouth. Shes probably had his semen all over her lips and her face, and she's gone to see you straight after it. And you wanna give that another chance? Think about that brah.

    How s-----y will you feel if you take her back and she does it again? it'll be much worst than the feeling you have now.
     
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  17. Mano
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    Mano

    May 20, 2015
    Dump her :camby:
     
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  18. Lil Squeed
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    Lil Squeed French Montana Stan

    May 20, 2015
    I've been cheated on before and gave the girl a second chance (she admitted it to me, as well)...lasted about a month after that incident. Trying to restart and pretending it never happened is really uncomfortable and awkward for everybody.
     
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    May 20, 2015
    f--- slittin her throat, cut that b------s head off
     
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  20. JayEmGe
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    May 20, 2015
    Cut that hoe off dude. If they cheat on you once they'll definitely do it again since they have no respect for you
     
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