Best Posts: Not sure what to do

  1. Kon
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    Kon

    May 20, 2015
    Well s--- I just typed out a long post saying how you should consider giving her another chance if she's willing to not do it again since she was honest with you about it, but then I re read your post and saw this wasn't a one time thing, it had been going on for weeks. Kinda hard to trust her at that point then and she might even want you to break up with her imo but maybe she just doesn't want to do it herself, girls can be weird like that at times.

    I don't know, I guess what I'm saying is if it was a one time thing I'd be willing to give her another shot under these circumstances but since it had been going on for weeks, probably not..But do what you feel is right, if you have strong feelings for her then maybe it's at least worth having a conversation with her and seeing if this can be worked out and if you can still trust her.
     
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  2. rapmusik
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    May 20, 2015
    thanks a bunch, homie. appreciate everything you've said
     
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  3. Lil Squeed
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    Lil Squeed French Montana Stan

    May 20, 2015
    Best of luck man. :daps:
     
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  4. Lil Squeed
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    Lil Squeed French Montana Stan

    May 20, 2015
    Obviously the most logical answer lies within @Nori's dictionary of song lyrics.
     
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  5. attila
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    May 20, 2015
    Wait what if there's an explanation for what she did
     
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  6. rapmusik
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    May 20, 2015
    I may have come off wrong. This particular girlfriend did not cheat prior afaik. Those were past relationships that have gone sour. This one only seems different because she came to ME and admitted the issue. That's why I'm having some difficulty here
     
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  7. FreeAgent
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    FreeAgent Resurrected like Jesus

    May 20, 2015
    Sorry to hear that, bro.

    In my opinion, I'd cut things off. She clearly didn't give a f--- about you when she decided to cheat and carry it on. Her telling you wasn't her being sincere, but her being guilty/not wanting to get caught out.

    It's two different situations, but I got hurt time and time again with my ex, especially after we broke up. Don't let yourself be in the same situation.
     
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  8. Mild Bobby Sauce
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    Mild Bobby Sauce 3 apples tall

    May 20, 2015
    Don't let rage and testosterone cloud your vision right now man, anything can be fixed if the feelings are strong enough. Just be honest with yourself
     
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  9. Nuredin B
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    Nuredin B "The Cool Cats" - Number 99

    May 20, 2015
    d--- thats tough
     
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