Serious Opinions on strict Fathers/Mothers.

Started by Raxofa, Aug 13, 2017, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Caslon
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    Aug 14, 2017
    lol mom is the opposite of strict she always just let us do whatever

    as a product of that i have horrible self discipline
     
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  2. kidkuro
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    kidkuro local black man

    Aug 14, 2017
    When I was younger I had the pretty stereotypical strict West Indian father. Thought nothing of it. Most people who come from a Caribbean or even African background probably knows what I'm talking about.

    However, it wasn't until the time I turned 10 when my dad actually started to straight up physically abuse me on the regular. Like everything I did was wrong. If he wasn't beating me then he was constantly bringing me down, saying I was always a bad kid. I got more s--- than my younger sister and my older brother.

    It got to the point where now I believe I would've been better off without a dad. s---, just last year when he was d--- near dying from a failing liver and kidney I was the only one who could give him what he needed and I actively refused because after all the s--- he put me through in my life I wasn't gonna keep that guy alive.

    But anyway, I do not have a strict mother. I just have an overprotective mother. But oftentimes I tell her to chill out and let me be me and she normally backs off.
     
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  3. Soldier
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    Soldier big cuntry's alias

    Aug 14, 2017
    I haven't had to answer to a parent since I was 15
     
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  4. Deadpool
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    Deadpool the end

    Aug 14, 2017
    ha mom and dad im black
     
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  5. Michael Myers
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    Aug 14, 2017
    There is a difference between strict parenting (like raising ur kids not to be idiots or wannabe tough guys) and being a d-ck to ur kids
     
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  6. Raxofa
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    Raxofa We some youngin's making livin's

    Aug 14, 2017
    He's just a d-ck, he even cusses out other kids and s--- that live in this house and they really aren't even his, he's a p---- that doesn't phase me anymore since he throws my mom to the dirt like that. When I see him just go off on my mom my adrenaline is extremely high and I become really protective but other than that when he yells at me or threatens me I don't even pay attention I mind my own business because I have responsibilities on my own.
     
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  7. 1999
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    Aug 14, 2017
    I always caught an a--- whooping as a kid if I f----- around, now looking back at it I don't think I could do the same if I had a child, I think it was just the norm back then
     
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  8. UofLCard
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    UofLCard MCMXC

    Aug 14, 2017
     
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  9. icecube
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    icecube West Coast is the Best Coast

    Aug 14, 2017
    As a kid: they s---
    As an adult: they made me who I am today
     
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