Feb 11, 2026 at 6:21 AM Had a horrible sudden breakup with my gf after she got drunk again and was a mean drunk again (demons inside her come out). Told her last time there will be no more chances, she said she can drink moderately, promised. Happened again. Broke up with her, she refused to leave, started causing chaos in the house, I called the cops, she started hitting me, kicked her out, she almost knocked the doors down, cops came, took her. Constant fights even without alcohol, but god d--- all I see now is the good times. I am a weak man and I consider getting in touch with her and try to fix things. I am torn. This is hard.
Feb 11, 2026 at 8:08 AM I’m sorry but it’s not worth it dude. I don’t care what good times you had with her, how pretty she is, how good the p---- is, etc. She’s never going to actually fix her alcoholism if you keep going back to her. It’ll just keep getting worse because she’ll see that you keep coming back to her no matter how horrible she is. She needs to deal with the consequences of what she’s doing and maybe even hit rock bottom to truly see the error of her ways and finally get help for her addiction. She has to truly wanna get better for HERSELF, not for you. If she is only getting better for you it’ll never work. You can’t fix her.
Feb 11, 2026 at 8:20 AM Agree. It’s an endless cycle. And people wonder why I’m single. No h---, but Kim just didn’t hit the spot like my dildo
