Strong urges to get back with a toxic girlfriend

Started by Spatula, Feb 11, 2026 at 6:21 AM, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Spatula
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    Spatula that you want

    Feb 13, 2026 at 3:05 AM
    Contemplating whether or not just downgrade her to fuckbuddy
     
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  2. Slyk
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    Slyk God made a prophet.

    Feb 13, 2026 at 3:11 PM
    FWB sounds like a healthy down-titration, but in reality it's a slippery upward slope.
    plus, imagine if/when you start dating or f---ing someone else and she's still in the mix.
     
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    Feb 13, 2026 at 3:35 PM
    I've only ever seen FWB work personally when it was just an actual friends-only friend who got access to the benefits... the downgrade, a reversal to "friends" with sexy time from full couple status never really took for me
     
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  4. Michael Myers
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    Feb 13, 2026 at 4:48 PM
    This only works if you don't love her and just want her for the sex. Seems to me you actually miss her.

    What if in the process you find out she met someone else or breaks ur heart again? Not sure if that's worth it bro
     
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