Strong urges to get back with a toxic girlfriend

Started by Spatula, Feb 11, 2026 at 6:21 AM, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Spatula
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    Spatula that you want

    Feb 15, 2026 at 3:53 AM
    I saw her last night as she was dropping off letters she wrote to me. We hugged and cried. She was asking for another chance. Says she knows it will be different this time and she knows I'm the one. I told her I cannot believe that. That it would be good for a week or month and things would restart. She swears that wont happen, that she now knows losing me is not an option.

    I let her go, both in tears, but I'm not even sure I believe myself. Nothing easier for me than to give another chance. I am sort of on autopilot where "no" is the answer, but I lost why I'm saying it.
     
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    Ripper Roo Last of a Dying Breed

    Feb 15, 2026 at 7:31 AM
    Wow, I’m proud of you. A lot of men would’ve folded in that situation. She’s really trying hard to get you back.
     
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