Jun 11, 2015 Yes, people didn't sign up on SL because of the hostility and because of the system. The vibe is totally different when you implement sth like that. To be clear, I can unterstand both sides (pro- and con-implementing), but I support the current system. And I don't support it because I'm a like-whor- (I'm not), but because this will support guests to sign up. And if you don't like the current members, you might like the future ones.
Jun 11, 2015 new members sign up daily and post...something that never happened on SL after the first 3 months...its cuz they can post without fearing getting dislikes you guys wont believe the amount of pms i used to get from people getting dislikes and negs..is it silly? yes...does it effect the forum growth? f--- yes
Jun 11, 2015 Interesting. I would have guessed it had more to do with the exposures. It was bad business but those first few months were pretty great. If you went at a mod you were getting exposed lol and I think we were all guilty of it. I think at one point even Dev One changed a poster's avatar to their hideous Facebook picture and their signature was made their IP address. LMAO terrible for building a website but those were some pretty fun times.
Jun 11, 2015 I didn't sign up on SL because of that (I actually did 2 months before it closed because it was basically dead and had 4 posts in total compared to my 1,7k posts here). Right here, I feel free to say everything what I want to express and that's sth I really appreciate. Imagine someone signing up and getting a dislike because someone doesn't like his avy and/or name (SL obv used to do that sometimes). He/she will probably have doubts of wanting to be active here. I'm happy with this system. But I'm happy as well that we're having this convo (it's essential for what S80 wants to be now and in the future).
Jun 11, 2015 lol do you guys really think people are that soft? like, they get a dislike and just give up on life and quit the forum? I mean, it's not like they won't have the power to do the same thing
Jun 11, 2015 yes they are, i been an admin for 5 years...trust me they are go to coli...go to the staff help forum...see the first 20 pages of that forum
Jun 11, 2015 If you support someone disliking a post because one of his post got disliked, then, well, hello SL. This is the first step towards a vibe we don't want to have (at least me).
Jun 11, 2015 If we get dislikes, I'm starting a group called the Uncool Cats where we circlejerk with the dislikes :Em2:
Jun 11, 2015 no. I'm insinuating they shouldn't feel less than whoever disliked their post. not necessarily that they have to go back and dislike their post. s80 way too on edge with this positivity thing..adding dislikes just keeps things interesting. obviously there's room for abuse but doesn't that go for anything? see: flawlesst or ordinary joel. and if anything like happens, they get warned/moderated the same way
Jun 11, 2015 That's tricky, because even though people shouldn't take it personal, some people on the one hand take it personal and on the other hand some people like to rub it in like 'ha! now you have a dislike as well'. Sadly, it's impossible to change both. I still understand what you want to do. But once you give people the option to be 'evil' (even though disliking is not necessarily being evil, but sometimes it is), people will take the chance. If I was a moderator, I'd rather want to moderate people who are liking too much stuff than people who dislike too much stuff.
Jun 11, 2015 i wanted dislikes..i fought for it at november 2014...then when i saw sxn80 these months...and compare it to SL...trust me bro..you have no idea how good we have it
Jun 11, 2015 i got 1 pm each 3-4 days of members asking me to delete their accounts due to negs or getting many dislikes
Jun 11, 2015 I know you're confident enough to not feel such pain, but imagine 100 totally different people signing up and some of them being rather insecure (which might change and most likely will if the vibes are right). Everbody starts small in the end. Those people shouldn't be scared away shortly after or even before signing up.
Jun 11, 2015 Crazy, I can sort of see if it's a spacemonkey type thing where EVERY post is disliked but otherwise I don't get it. So I'm guessing it's officially a no on this idea then?
Jun 11, 2015 almost 70% of the people who voted want something new don't think doing nothing should be an option here
Jun 11, 2015 you guys looking at things from very narrow place all i care about is the forum growth..and its in direct conflict with what is proposed here