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  1. Dew
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    Dew سيف الله

    Mar 2, 2017
    get involved. meet through mutual friends who had friends they went to grade school with.

    basically have friends.


    i went to an all boys school
     
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  2. Clarity
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    Clarity

    Mar 2, 2017
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    What advice do you have for a person who goes to a private all boys school like myself?
     
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  3. Poohdini
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    Poohdini MVP MVP

    Oct 27, 2017
    She might be a hoe tbh but what's the point of dating a hoe if you're not gonna f--- her?

    Get your s--- together Tony.
     
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  4. DKC
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    DKC shortygonletmecrush

    Oct 27, 2017
    This is an attitude you gotta get rid of man. It's fine if you're not ready to have sex, but worrying about someone being a "slut" isn't going to get you anywhere. It's a red flag to me that you're having thoughts about your girl like that.

    You might stay together forever. You might break up in a month. You might break up in five years. When you're only four months into a relationship everything is up in the air and you don't have to go all in. You're still learning about each other. If this is a girl you like and having sex is something you want to do then f---ing go for it man. But worrying about what's gonna happen if you break up or if she's a "slut" is only gonna hold you back. People put losing their virginity on a pedestal, and it's not really anything to worry about.
     
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  5. 22Savage
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    22Savage

    Oct 19, 2017
    You aren't dumb for thinking she might be lying given your inexperience, and you probably have a ton of questions. If you think she's lying, just ask her to be honest about the experience. She might be really easy to make c-m or you're just talented, or it could be something completely different. Relationships thrive on honesty and communication.
     
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  6. TimmyT
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    TimmyT Self-Taught

    Oct 6, 2017
    interesting post.

    seems like women--especially on a college campus- would be very wary of guys. that's not to say they don't hookup with guys sometimes, i know it happens, but safety is obviously very important to them.

    one time i asked a girl out in a LIBRARY. and when i did it, i didn't get close to her. i gave her some space between her and I. i always do that because i don't want it to seem creepy. later on, thru e-mail, she told me she knew i didn't mean any harm, but it did make her feel uncomfortable because she was only looking for a study partner
     
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  7. Sign Language
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    Sign Language We miss you Screw

    Oct 3, 2017
    d--- right man. Second week here I met this chick and s--- was going great. We rode out Hurricane Harvey by spending 3 straight days in bed. Not gonna lie I was starting to like her. Then she put the brakes on and cut my a--- off to go f--- a bunch of frat guys.

    Can't trust these hoes.
     
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  8. K18 El Duderino
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    K18 El Duderino Welcome to the Dopamine Dome

    Oct 3, 2017
    you just gotta jump in and take that leap of faith when you feel its right dawg.
     
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  9. Big Dangerous
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    Big Dangerous World Heavyweight Champion

    Oct 3, 2017
    I.e. he wants to smash
     
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  10. Sign Language
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    Sign Language We miss you Screw

    Oct 3, 2017
    @TimmyT I see you lurkin :khaled:
     
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  11. Big Dangerous
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    Big Dangerous World Heavyweight Champion

    Oct 3, 2017
    She dressing up impress first time y'all hang out? Do it again soon first and evaluate how things go from there
     
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  12. Sign Language
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    Sign Language We miss you Screw

    Oct 3, 2017
    In a bit of a situation right now.

    So last week I went home for the weekend to get a little break from college. While there, this chick I went to high school with and I started messaging each other (I forgot what started the convo) and I was like "Hey I'm in town, we should hang out." So later that night we went and ate and caught up for a few hours. Things went pretty smooth, we kept making each other laugh and even flirted a bit. She even dressed to impress if you know what I mean. When I dropped her back off at her place she said "Let me know when you're back in town, we should do this again :emoji_blush:" We've been snapchatting since and things have been pretty good.

    So unless I'm just reading this wrong, it seems like she's into me. And clearly she knows a relationship is off the table because I'm away at college. So how do I stop beating around the bush and make my intentions clear without coming off like a douche or a creep?
    @Changeling @Poohdini
     
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  13. DKomamura
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    DKomamura #Istillpreferasians

    May 17, 2017
    Someone knows how to read signals from girls? like some friends tell me that a girl is into me but i never feel it myself.
     
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  14. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    Apr 25, 2017
    She doesn't know what she's losing
     
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  15. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    Apr 21, 2017

    I don't know why people have to make things like a game of chess but you could like just flat out ask her?

    "Why do you keep bringing him up?" literally all there is to do
     
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  16. sprites
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    sprites

    Apr 8, 2017
    Not really anything.. her mind is in another world so she is speaking from another world view..
     
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  17. JFK
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    JFK Bleach on my t-shirt

    Mar 13, 2017
    I wholeheartedly agree with this. I was referring to starting a conversation with a stranger (who you aren't even snap friends with yet)
     
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  18. Mike Tyson
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    Mike Tyson big cuntry's alias

    Mar 13, 2017
    You gotta get with the times man. Spinning a conversation out of snap story a female posts is probably the number 1 easiest way to get in with a girl.

    In my experience, easiest slides for casual DMs:
    1. Snapchat (reply to her snap story)
    2. Instagram (reply to her insta story, DM her a relevant meme, like for like etc.)
    3. Twitter (dm her about a tweet)
    4. Facebook (I just don't like this one because I don't use Facebook like that, but old people love this s---)

    but we all got different approaches, no doubts.
     
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  19. JFK
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    JFK Bleach on my t-shirt

    Mar 10, 2017
    It's harder/creepy to randomly start snapping someone than commenting on an Instagram story (which is the easiest way to DM slide imo).

    But I agree, getting her Snapchat is a crucial step, and helps maintain contact for months with little effort
     
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  20. Future Vandross
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    Future Vandross

    Mar 10, 2017
    Honestly man... just ask her out.

    example:
    You: What are you doing this week?
    Her: ...
    You: Do you wanna get coffee some time?
    If she says yes > "Great, let me get your number and i'll text you"

    When you text >
    You: Hey, how are you doing?
    Her: ....
    You: Gonna go to this coffeeshop tomorrow, you wanna come?
    You're saying that you're gonna go there and you basically ask if she wants to come with you. like you don't give a f--- if she comes or not, you're gonna be there anyways, you dont wanna look needy.
     
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