Sep 26, 2017 posted in another thread Spoiler remember when i said i might be falling for my best friend, well a huge part of that goes to me thinking she fell for me first, either that or she really thinks im tge best friend she ever had.. there was continuos (or whatever) staring, always asking me if im alright and just generally obsessed with making me happy.. few weeks ago she messaged me saying "dont be one of those people who drifts away because of classes, ur my bro for life" (we used to be classmates for 2 years and now we're not) so up until thursday she would really treat me like u would treat someone u like... thursday afternoon i found an old pic of her and decided to black mail her as a joke.. but she didnt reply after that.. i even messaged to see if shes mad, and messaged her 2 dats later and she didnt even open the chat... today i finally see her at school and ask her "why did u get mad and s---" she said "im not mad..." and before she could finish her cousin came and took her, f---ing hate that b----. so now im confused about wtf is goimg on
Sep 26, 2017 I would say you guys just seem like good friends. If it's really bothering you and you don't mind risking your friendship then man up and tell her how you feel/describe the vibes you been getting from her. My advice would be to leave it and pursue other girls.
Sep 26, 2017 h--- nah i wont risk our friendship for nothing, but there's something wrong, thursday we were closer than ever but haven't spoken since
Sep 26, 2017 What do you mean when you say you blackmailed her with an old pic? Like you texted it to her or posted it on social media or what?
Sep 26, 2017 and just yesterday we were grouped together for a literature presentation (still haven't talked even tho we sit a feet away from each other for an hour each day... i waited 2 years for this and it only came at the lowest point of our friendship
Sep 26, 2017 nah texted it.. it was just a joke and she knows that but idk whats happening all of a sudden
Sep 26, 2017 I wouldn't read too much into it then especially if you already apologized. Like I said I would let the situation be if I was in your position. Start chasing after other girls. Stay friends with this chick but you're putting in too much effort for a girl you're never gonna hook up with.
Sep 26, 2017 I was seeing this girl for a couple months. She started working at my job for the summer. Hit it off and started hanging. Slept around a couple times, went on dates. Her ex came back into the picture and that was it. Tried to work things out but dude has a kung fu grip on her brain. Oh well.
Sep 27, 2017 I started college this semester and idk how to go about tryna get chicks here. I know y'all are probably like "wtf college is the place where p---- is the easiest!". Though the thing is I don't really know anyone here and just randomly approaching women seems creepy. Maybe I'm overthinking this but I just don't know wtf to do. Plus I thought I struck gold early on but I got 180'd on in the most s-----y way. Advice?
Sep 27, 2017 Try to mack on the chicks that are in ur major because ya'll will be more likely to have stuff in common
Sep 27, 2017 Meet chicks through classmates or through friends u make, the random approaching can work in certain environments but school isn’t one I would recommend just let them chicks go to class b
Sep 27, 2017 I don't even know which chicks are majoring in the same thing as I am. Plus rn I'm not in any major specific classes (with the exception of economics).
Sep 27, 2017 @Sign Language yea what DP said network it's always easier talking to chicks and getting chicks to be comfortable around u if they know u share common friends
Sep 27, 2017 The people I've met so far got girlfriends or are just studying 24/7. Y'all have great ideas but the circumstances just don't match.
