Mar 7, 2017 no reason for this besides everytime i read one of his post in this sxn i just shake my head
Mar 7, 2017 and @Ben shaking your head at what? you didn't even say anything....shut yo a--- up her disappearing for 2 straight weeks doesn't bother me. and the reason it doesn't is because i don't have any control over it. its one thing to not respond to someones texts or messages immediately or the same day......but two weeks is a long a--- time.....especially since she was communicating with me a lot more consistently before she vanished for those two straight weeks. not a big deal to me..........its just strange more than anything
Mar 7, 2017 Confidence really. Go to frat parties or upperclassmen parties. Chat up with them as if age & grade is just a number. Just have sauce and talk to them like they were just any other girl, not subject wise because most of them have jobs and bills and young adult things to worry about and you are focused on what new game to buy or other juvenile things they can't relate to.
Mar 7, 2017 Like others have said it could be something going on in her life or she's just busy etc. But honestly what I think is more likely is she was interested in another guy she met off tinder and trying to pursue that, then when it didn't work out she went back to you. Might sound kinda cruel but it's also the most likely explanation imo.
Mar 8, 2017 ok. thanks. i'll keep that in mind. as i said before, its not a big deal. its just weird when you're talking to someone and they randomly stop talking. but you live and you learn and i'll remember that for next time. although tinder isn't the only avenue i use for meeting women, one of the reasons I like it so much is because it makes it easier to gauge a woman's interest level. in other words, it filters out the people who aren't interested in you. if you match with a girl, then you know that she's at least a little interested. whereas, when you go to a bar or club or whatever and you're trying to meet women....its harder to gauge their interest level. its much more of a guessing game.
Mar 10, 2017 @Poohdini @Mike Tyson I need an advice. long story short: matched with a girl on tuesday, talked a bit, next day we transferred over to whatsapp. today we spoke briefly but nothing really worth mentioning. normally i am not a big fan of the online s--- and do it just for s--- and giggles but this girl seems cool so want to give it a try. should i just try for a date tommorow, or keep chatting up for a day or two and after that? any ideas to spice things up. moh life brudas
Mar 10, 2017 I'd say just ask her out now. But I'd defer to @Poohdini for a second opinion since I've never used tinder myself. Once you get the number you're in though.
Mar 10, 2017 Yeah like @Mike Tyson said once you get her off tinder you're basically in. You got nothing to lose at this point. I'd go to her with plans already in mind. I just feel like there's a higher success rate that way rather than just asking if she wants to hang out. Snapchat is #1 imo.
