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Serious Best Posts: I broke up with my girlfriend of four years and I feel like I made a mistake

  1. FLORIDA MAN
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    FLORIDA MAN

    May 22, 2017
    Yeah u f----- up she getting pounded right now
     
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  2. Poohdini
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    Poohdini MVP MVP

    May 22, 2017
    A girl will always make time and put in the effort to see/hang out with you unless you did something to her or she's not emotionally invested in the relationship. You guys hung out once in a month or 2 weeks? I give you props for actually being able to end it. On to the next bro.
     
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  3. Groovy Tony
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    Groovy Tony Grandma's baby Eddie Kane

    May 22, 2017
    It may feel like you made a mistake but the right thing to do was to break up. Her not making efforts to spend time with you tells me that she was either not invested into the relationship anymore or more invested into someone else. You made the right call bud now you just have to move on
     
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  4. Xmipod
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    Xmipod

    May 22, 2017
    Talk to her about it. see if she feels the same way. If she does put more of an effort into seeing her more. If yall are meant to be youll find time for eachother
     
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  5. Xmipod
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    Xmipod

    May 22, 2017
    Chill fam lol
     
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  6. Stevio
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    Stevio Goonio Da Boonio

    May 22, 2017
    How come you only saw each other once a month?
     
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  7. Jacuzzi
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    Jacuzzi

    May 24, 2017
    OP u did the right thing. There like nothing indicating that you didn't.
     
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  8. DKC
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    DKC shortygonletmecrush

    May 24, 2017
    You're always gonna get a bit of cold feet from a breakup no matter how it ended. It's normal to think you made the wrong choice and just shows that you're human. You spent four years of your life with this person so it's hard to imagine your life without them even if you didn't see each other a lot in the end. It sounds like neither of you were truly invested in each other even if you still care about each other. You can care about someone without dating them, but to date someone this long term there needs to be investment.

    It sounds like you made the right decision. Just keep yourself busy in the meantime and put yourself out there and meet new people when you're ready.
     
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