Mar 15, 2015

Yeah, letting your girl b--- other people is proven to strengthen relationships. I don't know why it's not working yet.

 

Mar 15, 2015

Act like you're moving on dude. She won't wanna stay with you if you're simping around listening to drake all day. Hang out with some friends and be vague about who you're with, even if it's bs and you're actually just with your friends. Go out and do s---...without her. Don't spend every minute of your day frowning over her. Is it realistic that you could get back together? Probably, but it's realistic that you won't either. Start learning to balance a single lifestyle without her. If she still cares enough to notice that you're doing your own thing, you could have a chance.

And maybe do some self evaluation while you're at it. You've probably changed since you lost your job and s---.

At the end of the day, try and understand that the concept of love is an idea. If you're with someone who makes you happy and you can coexist together, that's great. If not, look for someone else. Regardless of what happens around you in your life, be responsible for yourself. You're your own individual person with a mind just as complex as the next person, but at the end of the day the only guaranteed being in your life is yourself. Explore your hobbies or interests. You need to learn how to enjoy being by yourself without being lonely. I've been with my girlfriend for what will be two years this Summer. We initially had some problems at the start of our relationship (1-2 months in), but we've worked those out and have been sympatico ever since. I love her, she's an incredible person, and it's been really nice to share the past year and more with someone who I'm in tune with, but I wouldn't hesitate to move on if/when things start to get bad. Take care of yourself without relying on others. I lost my Dad when I was 15 and it blew me away. I still struggle with the loss of a Dad sometimes, but I've learned that even without the people you rely on in life, it still goes on without them.

My two cents. Good luck with it dude!!

 

Mar 16, 2015

I feel you man I've been with my girl for eight years and the last year has been rocky. Having something that long end is a daunting thought but f--- what can you really do? Whatever you do in life or whatever your passion is focus on that s--- 110% and become as successful as possible. If you do that two things are certain. You'll meet somebody new that will interest you and your ex will come crawling back. Just move on and and focus on you.

Side Note- If you have to live with her though because of financial issues make sure you guys use her new boyfriend to your advantage. Landscaping, washing your vehicles, cooking you burritos... her new BF and 10 of his cousins could and should be doing a lot of hard labor for you for a ten cents an hour. I'm dead serious when I say you should ask her if he'll do all of that for you.

 

Mar 15, 2015

Holy s--- did bot just make a valid point?

 

Mar 15, 2015

thats like the deepest s--- I ever read on the internet brah

 

Mar 15, 2015

breaking your heart is even more f----- up

sounds evenn to me