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  1. Mike Tyson
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    Mike Tyson big cuntry's alias

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  3. lil uzi vert stan
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    lil uzi vert stan

    Apr 13, 2015
    tbh, i was friends with a lot of (fairly attractive) girls up until i moved in with my gf... now theyve conveniently drifted away

    i think its partly just the way things go, but there could also be a subconscious thing goin on. after all, im v lovable
     
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  4. WPG
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    WPG sxn80 Rory Gilmore

    Apr 11, 2015
    can't tell if timmy or luke is more pitiful here
     
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  5. Mike02
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    I do have girls that are just friends. But they're all unattractive. Very hard to be "just friends" with a hot chick.
     
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  6. TimmyT
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    TimmyT Self-Taught

    Apr 11, 2015
    it's not impossible. i never said it was. i just said its unlikely.

    i know a few girls that i talk to from time to time, but we aren't friends....we're acquatainces

    friends are people you hang out with in real life, they're ppl who you go out and do things with, they're people who will generally be there for you when you need a hand. friends is one of those terms that gets thrown around too easily. i only have a small handful of people who are truly friends.

    and as i said in the opening post, i'm not opposed or against having female friends, it just hasn't worked out that way.
     
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  7. WPG
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    WPG sxn80 Rory Gilmore

    Apr 13, 2015
    that's because they don't want to f--- you, luke.
     
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  8. Old Account
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    Old Account

    Apr 12, 2015
    On topic -

    I have a couple that I talk to on a regular basis. I don't understand the middle school " it's impossible to remain friends with hot girls" logic. I know girls who are gorgeous - but their personality or bad taste turn me off. Although what can be difficult is remaining friends with a girl who is both beautiful and a great person. It all depends on the circumstances surrounding the situation
     
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  9. Fazers
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    Apr 12, 2015
    they only let me hang when i pay for them :emoji_slight_frown:
     
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  10. Fazers
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    Fazers

    Apr 12, 2015
    have a couple of cam girls, amp girls, escorts, and strippers that i'm pretty friendly with
     
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  11. reservoirGod
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    reservoirGod reckless adventurer.

    Apr 12, 2015
    Honestly Timmy... and take this in the spirit which it is intended. I think the best thing for you to do is make friends with a lesbian.

    That way you could get call girls together and instead of costing you twice as much for two girls you could split the bill and pay half.

    You could pretend to be a couple and get couple massages with happy endings... That would be great bonding time. Maybe you could even convince her to be a cam girl and direct her and her lesbian girlfriend's on cam.

    I'm sure this would help gain insight to a woman's perspective and maybe give you more empathy for them.

    s---t, I have lots of friends that are girls... and now that I gave you this advice, I might even try the same thing!
     
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  12. Creation
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    Creation By Any Means

    Apr 12, 2015
    I have alot of friends who are girls, the great thing about it is, they introduce you to their friends & put a good word in for you.


    Sometimes dudes can annoy the s--- out of me with their egos & the fact they think they can have every girl they want... but i guess it goes both ways as girls can be the same at times, but dudes get desperate where woman are concerned, spewing out bs to get the girls to like them, but having alot of friends who are girls gives you the comfort you should have around all women.
     
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  13. DKC
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    DKC shortygonletmecrush

    Apr 12, 2015
    To clarify, I just meant feelings that neither of you acted upon—not someone you actually dated/hooked up with. The latter is definitely a struggle, no matter how cool the person might be.
     
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  14. Ordinary Joel
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    Ordinary Joel Happiness begins when selfishness ends

    Apr 11, 2015
    I've got a few female friends, at one stage or another I was attracted to them but after a while the attraction was lost.
     
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  15. DKC
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    DKC shortygonletmecrush

    Apr 11, 2015
    If you can't be just friends with a woman, then you probably have a lot of growing up to do both socially and sexually. Not that I'm saying it's bad that attraction can develop between friends of the opposite sex (it's certainly happened to me), but if you develop feelings for every potential female friend you come in contact with, then you have some issues you need to sort out.

    It's also definitely not true that you can't be friends with someone you were at one point romantically attracted to or vise-versa.
     
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