May 5, 2022My partner and I had a medical abortion shortly after we started seeing each other. We were young and reckless and ended up pregnant like two months into our relationship. We weren’t in a position to bring a child into the world. We both lived at home, had s-----y dead-end jobs, barely knew each other, and wouldn't have been able to provide for a child. The average child costs a family an additional $20,000/y.
Fast forward a few years and we had a home, well-paying jobs, and a relationship that existed for longer than two months. We were in a much better position when we decided to have a baby. I've been a parent for almost 2 years now and have ZERO regrets about abortion. If we weren't able to do it, our child wouldn't be the happy, healthy, and provided for child that he is today.
We should celebrate the fact that as humans we are able make the correct choices for ourselves and others.
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May 8, 2022
Everybody in this thread talking like there’s no other reasons to need an abortion other than being ‘an idiot’ or being r---d. There’s also circumstantial medical problems that can arise during pregnancies where the mother needs an abortion merely to survive.
Also when acknowledging the ‘being an idiot’ argument, adding your own anecdotal personal responsibility to the argument instead of an analysis on a society’s material conditions that shape decisions for example; poverty (financial stress), education (lack thereof influencing ‘idiotic’ decisions), time for parenting (work-life & already straddled with family-oriented dependencies), is not taking a valid stance using the understanding of situational complications so is therefore nothing more than useless babble.
The highest abortion rate is in single mothers in their 20s from poor backgrounds (5x more likely whilst in poverty) usually of non-white ethnicity (2x more likely) & lack of high school education. Over half of the USA’s pregnancies are unplanned & half of those are due to lack of access to birth control which is why the USA’s abortion rates are alike to developing countries. There’s a clear connection to how the birth of said unwanted child will have a knock-on effect on the physical & mental well-being of not only the child, but the mother & the projection of the 2 problems = society as a whole as they are integrated into the external-environment affecting other children & spawning a constant generational cycle of abused children becoming abusive adults from trauma, all that can be completely avoided with a simple law.
Conservatives will always try to utilise [pseudo]-science when it suits with takes like the debunked ‘overpopulation’ myth & ‘murdering a child in the womb’ even though 9 out of 10 women terminate during the 1st trimester, but then ignore [contextual] science within the same & other arguments for religious or just ignorant stances. If you want to use science, then stop burying your heads in the sand & read the countless studies that have calculated the negative affects non-legal abortion routes create in societies, if to you the individual’s traumas/deaths aren’t enough & listening to women including the ones who’ve survived the ordeals isn’t enough, there’s a myriad of data aligning with each other that this is simply a regressive policy & it is pretty unbelievable that still to this day, this is a bottomless nonsensical argument across supposedly progressive countries. We clearly still have a long way to go.DKC, Allis Mines, Michael Myers and 5 others like this. -
May 5, 2022
when i’m president i’ll allow abortions until your kids are 16 so you can make sure they’re not a d-ckThili, Yeez, Ordinary Joel and 5 others like this. -
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May 3, 2022
I hate our politicians so much man lolD12Shady, Ordinary Joel, Omar Little and 5 others like this.(This ad goes away when signing up) -
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May 5, 2022
Also the people who all of a sudden pretend they're experts in high-level interpretation of the constitution (and no I'm not an expert in constitution law but neither are you), a document that had to be amended to disallow slavery and give women the right to vote, and was also in part written by a guy who died from shoving a whale bone up his d-ck hole. In 1787 people still thought they could cure yellow fever by bloodletting because they thought it got rid of "the bad blood."Thili, Ordinary Joel, dna hits and 3 others like this. -
May 4, 2022
Very sad to see. Prohibition only makes things less safe.Ordinary Joel, DKC, Reed Richards and 3 others like this.(This ad goes away when signing up) -
May 2, 2022
3 out of the 5 justices that are slated to roll back women’s rights 50 years were appointed by Donald Trump. But it’s okay guys because space monkey told us not to worry!Ordinary Joel, Worm, oklama and 3 others like this. -
Jun 24, 2022
Will people who support this overturn be adopting the child born out of these unwanted pregnancies?Ordinary Joel, Mudkip, Michael Myers and 2 others like this. -
May 9, 2022
Republicans be like: "Yea the other side is full of groomers but it's crucial that you SUPPLY US WITH MORE CHILDREN"
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May 7, 2022
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May 7, 2022
@DKC @LasiK not tryna have a go at you specifically. I just hate the mental gymnastics of "we were young and didn't know!" - If you had a 1st world education, you definitely knew what could happen... like lol.
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May 6, 2022
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May 6, 2022
But like "ended up pregnant 2 months into our relationship"
So what you mean is you both consented to sex like adults, but didn't speak on the repercussions of having unprotected sex/what you would both do if pregnancy was the outcome? How many types of contraceptives are needed to be readily available, before we as the human race takes on a grain of salt worth of self-responsibility and goes "okay I could have used a condom, asked her to use birth control, had a vasectomy, pulled out, not had sex until ready. " Etc.
But no it was just a crazy thing that happened and you had no option but to terminate it. "The world is over populated and global warming are real issues, but yeah I accidentally got my missus pregnant, lol total accident, didn't expect my c-m to turn into a human." Like jesus christ lmao. Kids in adult bodies f---ing eachother is whack as f---, grow upOrdinary Joel, JMG, Guma and 2 others like this.(This ad goes away when signing up) -
May 3, 2022
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Jun 25, 2022
If you're celebrating this, f--- you.Ordinary Joel, Yeez, Michael Myers and 1 other person like this. -
May 7, 2022
Someone’s opposition to abortion shouldn’t mean that everyone doesn’t have access to it.
Add the fact that these GOP lawmakers don’t include exceptions for r---/incest, it shows that this is solely a sadistic effort.
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