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No-go's for a new relationship

Started by Michael Myers, Mar 1, 2025, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Michael Myers
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    Basically; what are (for you) the most important no-go's when it comes to a new relationship.

    I don't mean physical btw, we already decided as a community that short hair is a NO. So s--- like tattoos, clothes etc is not what I mean.

    But I mean more like circumstances or character.

    For example:

    - drama with an ex boyfriend: everyone has their bagage, sure, but I think a new relationship should be a fresh start for both and I would never want to be dragged into a feud with an ex or other drama like that. People need to be ready for a new relationship imo, to an extent at least.
    - a woman believing in conspiracy theories. During the corona era I met (not dated) a girl that was fully into that bs and I was like 'hellll no, never lol'.
    - money issues. Not talking about a student debt or not having a huge income, but s--- that ties her too much to other people.
    - drug use of any kind


    Just a few, how about u guys??

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  2. Allis Mines
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    Must enjoy g--- bangs and freak offs
     
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    Smocking

    Talks too much (won’t shut up)

    Tries to control you

    Lack of education towards people

    Talks about politics or religion

    :Em6:
     
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    Hmmmm I’m really tryna think.

    If her love language isn’t touch that could be a problem. I love touching my girl as much as possible and love when she does the same to me. This isn’t even necessarily all about sex either, like if we can’t cuddle I don’t want it. If she doesn’t sit on my lap, I don’t want it.

    With that being said I don’t want her to be clingy. I love to compliment but I don’t want to have to constantly validate her every second of the day or else she starts feeling like I don’t love her. I don’t want her to have to constantly be around me every second of the day to the point where I can’t even leave to go to the bathroom. She needs to have at least some confidence in herself so I’m not always feeling like I’m more of a therapist than a boyfriend. I’d love to help her with any issues she has and let her vent, and I’d love to be there for her, but it gets to a point where it is way too draining and where she should just go see a therapist or something. There is only so much I can do as I am not a professional therapist.

    Smoking cigarettes is gross. Excessive alcohol drinking is gross. I’m fine with weed and psychedelics but no hard drugs like m---.

    If she cannot admit when she is wrong and apologize, that is a definite no-go. We are supposed to be adults, act like it. If you think I am always wrong and you are always right, you can f--- off.

    With that being said, we need to be able to have deep conversations about our relationship without it turning into arguments. If you can’t handle anything but surface level conversations, I don’t want it. I want to be able to be vulnerable. If you constantly dismiss my problems, you can f--- off.
     
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    If she ain't giving head then I'm outta there.
     
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    I’ve sadly dealt with this multiple times but if she keeps saying “you’re just a man” during any argument. Like, if it’s their default response…yuck.

    My past 3 relationships have had this happen :emoji_slight_frown:
     
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    I hate this s---. Sexism is only okay when it’s a woman being sexist to a man!!! Lmao what a joke. Either none of it’s okay or all of it’s okay. Imagine if you came back at her with “you’re just a woman”
     
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    She Slim on my Shady until I Eminemed
     
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    it’s even funnier because they always say it about things that don’t involve gender. Like I was telling this chick about this book i was reading and she said “oh you like it cause you’re a man” like WHAT??:hoplease:

    I did try the woman thing once…. let’s just say it didn’t last long after that
     
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    You guys just aren’t Feminists like me.
     
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    If she controls me - that's a no no. If you say "no" to me going out with the Durag boys once in a while you have to go, f---ing clam.
    If she posts her sexy pics online - that's a no no. If she's mine then only my beautiful eyes can see her naked/in sexy lingerie/posing with butt up etc.
    If she talks to other guys online - that's a no no. How can you talk to other dudes, when you are with Ricky? No other guys can talk smack like me.
    If she's antivaxxer - that's a no no. b----, we don't want our kid to die from polio in 2025 or some?
    If she's pro covid vaccine - that's a no no. b----, it's too late for abortion. Let me raise our kid and you can go f--- yourself.
    If she doesn't cook - that's a no no. You don't cook? Aight, I will make it. What about our kid tho? Feed him or yeet yourself off the building, b----.
    If she listens to Drake - that's a no no.
    If she's hardcore feminist - that's a no no. Go rub clams with other idiots and leave my pecker alone. I don't want that feminism juice dripping all over my PP.

    But seriously, if she's talking to other f--s online, posting her a--- there - it's a red flag and I would have never ever went into relationship like that.
     
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    Ahhh I can kinda relate to that. I’m careful about letting women know that I like Clairo because apparently some women legit think men only like Clairo because she sings softly so apparently that means men think they can easily control her because she won’t fight back and will be subservient. Like wtf? That’s not even the way I listen to music. I just like her music because… wait for it… it’s good! Shocking I know. If anything I find hearing music from a woman’s perspective to be insightful in helping me understand women more.
     
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    but didn’t you hear? “Eminem is the nemesis to a feminist”
     
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    Everytime i say i like Lana Del Rey i get flooded with replies saying im a “male manipulator” like I just like Venice b---- ok :sweatt:
     
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    But....but


    This is you marshy boi
     
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    I type a lot, sucka. In real life I'm a real G so I move in silence like lasagna
     
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    Like a real ese
     
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    You aren't real mfker

    I'm a pull up in Spain
     
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    I'm interpreting this as Marsh confirming that he's literally a non verbal autist who walks around with tomato sauce around his mouth
     
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    Not being funny, like at all

    humor is subjective but I don’t think I could deal if we weren’t laughing at random bits either of us make up
     
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