Jul 30, 2015Continue living your life to the fullest, not wasting your time on anyone who's a negative influence. Don't try to get "revenge". Don't be rude when if enter your life again. Ignore them. Don't let them effect your life.
The best revenge is your absolute happiness with that person out of your life. That's it. Anything else is childish, immature, and will lead to more problems in the future.
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Jul 30, 2015
Become the most successful you can be. Grow out of that friendship
He'll eventually try to start being your friend again, and when you reject that - he'll hurtOrdinary Joel, DKC, Poohdini and 3 others like this. -
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Jul 30, 2015
I had this friend a few years ago who I thought was the realest n----- ever. We became good buddies pretty quick and found out that we had a lot of the same problems, we liked the same things and had a similar sense of humor. I thought it was going to be one of those friendships that remained for years. I even lived with this guy for a bit when I had s--- going on at home.
Anyway it turns out this guy was one of the biggest snakes ever. His ex girl at the time used to say that he was jealous of me and s--- but I brushed it off cos I thought he was cool. At the time he was the only guy I could trust with anything, so I told him about my girl, our problems and all of the s--- that used to piss me off about her. I thought he was helping me, but about a month later I found out from someone that this n----- had been going to my girlfriends house to "chill". He told her everything we spoke about. Nothing happened between them (he was ugly af), but the way he kept it a secret in the first place (and her, b----), and the way he stabbed me in the back was so f---ing sneaky. The relationship with my girl ended a few days later.I kept it quiet and pretended that I didn't know anything, remaining normal with him. When I saw this MFa lie straight to my face and pretend to be my bro, I felt like revenge was needed..
We used to party at his house because his Mum was always away, and what happened to be my last ever visit I left my mark. His younger sister was a year below me, and she would sometimes come down and chill with us lot. She was pretty annoying but this time I entertained her. When the party died down we were watching a movie on the sofa, there was about 5 of us under a blanket. Anyway I was drunk and remembered what this prick had done. I started touching her up underneath the blanket when this n----- was literally sitting 3 yards away from me, she was a hoe so f--- it. He eventually went upstairs to sleep and I told him I was staying down because I wanted to watch the rest of the film. When my man was snoring away upstairs I was banging his sister on his sofa. Revenge and p---- at the same time.... sweetest joy there is.
I was a savage then man, looking back I do regret it my actions. f--- it though I was 16 and this prick and f----- up my relationship and tried to scam me at the same d--- time - but that's a different story all together. I cut him off, and he took his L. What's even better is that he attempted to get with my ex girl shortly after, and she rejected him lmao
Anyway with your situation he sounds like an absolute dickhead. You literally have to cut him off COMPLETELY. Phase the guy out, pretend he doesn't even exist. Ignore all his calls and texts, he should get the message. It sounds like a cliche but the best revenge is to ignore the guy and go on to be successful. Enjoy your life and don't worry about him. What @Poohdini and @JFK said basically.Ordinary Joel, Renovator, Poohdini and 1 other person like this.(This ad goes away when signing up) -
Jul 30, 2015
Just concentrate on yourself. I was f----- over by 2 of my absolute best friends in HS. I was angry like you and wanted to kick the s--- out of them, but didn't. You should just cut him off completely and focus on being the most successful person you can be. Nothing will drive your enemies crazier than seeing you succeed.Ordinary Joel, Alpha, Koke and 1 other person like this. -
Jul 30, 2015
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