Aug 28, 2015

2 hours away... that's not a long distance relationship lol

 

Aug 28, 2015

Sahara wants to like you but Sahara feels like you're gonna get more annoying as time goes on

 

Aug 28, 2015

Yeah, doing it right now, second time with the same guy. First time was for 14 months and this time has been 6 months so far.
It is hard, it's very hard. When you go from having that person there everyday, by your side. The person you trust most to express yourself to, the person you enjoy spending all your time with. To nothing. To not being able to be with them, sometimes not even being able to talk to them because of time differences. It sucks and it's hard.

Communication is so important in a relationship like this. But there is a balance between a good amount and too much. Personally, I like some form of daily contact. Even if I dont hear his voice, a facebook message works fine.
Honesty is also very important. Being honest about your feelings and the things you are up to. The worst thing to do is bottle emotions and feelings up because it can just become harder and harder to address them, it can effect the LDR you are having, coming across distant when you do talk, being short with your loved one.

Another reason communication is key is for the reunion. My bf and I were in a relationship for 4yrs before doing an LDR. We lived together for those 4yrs, we were/are very close. He is my best friend. But even though we know each other so deeply, the first time we saw each other again was... weird? surreal?
Not in a bad way, just weird to be with each other in physically. If we hadn't spoken as often as we did I think then it actually would have been awkward weird.


This time around is a lot easier. It's still hard, especially at this point right now where I just want to be held safe in his arms and cry. But its 10 to 5 in the morning and I cant contact him. But after doing it the first time we know what to expect, we know what worked for us the first time and what didn't so we can make this time as easy a possible on ourselves.

 

Aug 28, 2015

Chad Warden understands that, but it's all love from the caddy. If you want to block Chad Warden, no hard feelings.

 

Aug 28, 2015

=p

 

Aug 28, 2015

Chad Warden is happy for you. Glad you love someone so much you miss them. Chad Daddy hopes he can find that special someone too.

 

Aug 30, 2015

LDR sounds like a drug

thats my random imput im out..

 

Aug 29, 2015

Sounds like a good girl with her priorities in check. Chad Warden hopes it works out for you.