Oct 9, 2015

I hated my Mom for years. Parents divorced when I was in diapers, Dad was granted sole custody over my brother and I. Used to see my Mom on the weekends. Dad talked a lot of s---. Dad was always right in my child eyes. Resented my Mom for not being there. Dad died and I still hated Mom. Had a lot of resentment left after he died. 4 years later I love and accept my Mom. I googled her name a while back for s----s and gigs and found an article she wrote for a local magazine about divorcing my Dad and how difficult things were after that. Broke me down and made me see things from her perspective. I haven't mentioned that I've seen it, but it changed how I think of her.

 

Oct 9, 2015

i consider myself like a father to some of you

talk to me

 

Oct 9, 2015

 

Oct 9, 2015

My father wouldnt call the police on his own son..

 

Oct 9, 2015

My mum left my dad when I was 4. I hated him for a long while when I was younger, I was only ever told bad things about him. When I was about 11 we went to visit his side of the family. They brought my mum, sister and I to where he was staying, just a walk away. He "whispered" to his friend standing next to him 'who are these people?'
I think a while after that I realised that there was no point have any form of feeling towards him. He is a stranger to me and I wouldn't hate a random stranger so why would I him?
I don't agree with what he did to my mother at all but I have learnt a bit about him earlier this year which makes me more understanding as to what could have pushed him to be the way he was.

I have a pretty good relationship with my mum. Sometimes she pisses me off but I love her.

 

Oct 9, 2015

Sounds like you're a great brother man, must've been tough growing up..

 

Oct 9, 2015

Pretty much have a typical father/son relationship with my father but I don't think I'll ever speak to my mom again. Haven't seen her in almost 8 months now

 

Oct 9, 2015

don't know how you can hate on your parents unless they abandoned you or something

it's mostly angsty teens who claim to hate their parents

 

Oct 9, 2015

thats rly s-----y brah

i hope you have a big d-ck at least

 

Oct 9, 2015

Sorry to hear that bud. I give you and your dad alot of credit. I hate how some people think only fathers are deadbeats. Woman can be just as bad if not worse.

 

Oct 9, 2015

I absolutely hated my mom as a teenager. Literally walked in on her cheating on my dad when I was like 10 which led to their divorce. Always blamed her for breaking up our family but now that I'm an adult I see things differently. After the split I lived with my dad on the weekends. Everytime I came over he would leave me home alone and go to his new girlfriends house for the whole weekend. I thought it was cool as a teen cuz it left me free to party and stuff. But now looking back as an adult that was pretty f----- up. Nowadays my dad lives an hour away from me and I only see him like three times a year on holidays. My kids don't know who he is. Whereas my mom is a very active mother and grandmother in me and my kids lives. I no longer blame her for the breakup. Now that I see my dad adult to adult I realize he's pretty much a jerk. Probably explains why he's now 60 and single. Whereas my mom is still married to the guy I walked in on her with back in 95.