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Started by JMG, Oct 29, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. JMG
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    JMG

    Oct 29, 2015
    pretty sad right now.. just got home and her friend was here helping her pack up and now shes gone. it happened so fast. i knew she wasn't happy with my work but i said id quit but now thats not even enough. id rather not get too personal but we were fighting a lot. she said i was controlling. i wasn't abusive and i gave her whatever she wanted. she said she needed time.. this does not sound good. will she come to her senses and come home? i dont know what to say to her right now. we were together almost 2 years.. how can she just walk away?
     
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  2. attila
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    Oct 29, 2015
    Give her time, she just probably needs some space right now ("since you're always controlling her"), she'll come back.
     
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  3. Nuredin B
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    Oct 29, 2015
    d--- sorri for u @JMG i would say give her maybe a few days but i dont know did she took ur kid?
     
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    Oct 29, 2015
    :mjcry:

     
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    Oct 29, 2015
    I'm flying you out to the UK so we can go on a couple nights out and find you a new girl.
     
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    Oct 29, 2015
    bro dont be so down, give it time.. s--- like this happens, it might not even be two days before shes back... you never know...

    on another note, @Nori that mv makin me cry
     
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    DetroitDGAF Locked in Mariah’s Wine Cellar

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    :kdotcry:maybe
     
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    Oct 29, 2015
    What did I told you

     
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  9. Boos
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    Oct 29, 2015
    If she's packed up and moved out its not gonna be just for a few days. You'd probably need to proof to her you can change over time before you came back. As long as she still lets you see the kid then it can all be fixed. Hopefully she doesn't use your child as a pawn to force your hand
     
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  10. JMG
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    JMG

    Oct 29, 2015
    i dont think i control her.. i just get annoyed at certain stuff she does. like does she need to put on make up to go to her moms and do laundry? she literally goes over there every other day too. looks for excuses also.. like as soon as an outfit gets dirty shes loading it up to wash it like wtf. i feel like shes wrong but shes trying to make me feel guilty.
     
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    Nori ☺ Deadpool is my deformed bousin☺

    Oct 29, 2015
    She could be OCD. Also, maybe she puts on the make up to look and feel nice. Have you ever told her how nice she looks with it on? It might get on your nerves but sometimes you have to be positive about it, for her. Seems like you're a busy dude, but try to do laundry with her sometime. Its not the funnest thing but I'm sure the fact that you're offering to accompany her would make a difference.
     
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    because the internet

    Oct 29, 2015
    Should spend less time on SXN80
     
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    Ricky FORUM PRIME WILL BE BACK

    Oct 29, 2015
    Been there, done that... Sorry to hear that.
     
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  14. JMG
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    JMG

    Oct 29, 2015
    I always told her how nice she looked. I just didn't think she needed all that make up. I guess its what women do though so I do regret it but I didn't think it bothered her so much that I didn't allow her to wear it. I wouldn't mind doing laundry with her but its at her if it wasn't at her moms. Her mom is very nice but no one wants to hang out with their mother in law.
     
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    JMG

    Oct 29, 2015
    @emostar do you think shes coming back? what do you think "i need time" means?
     
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  16. Mikey
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    Oct 29, 2015
    listen to this classic Cudi
     
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  17. Narsh
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    Oct 29, 2015
    Serious question, was she ever real?

    And if she is, then what about your kid? You didn't even mention him.
     
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    JMG

    Oct 29, 2015
    like i said, id rather not get too personal. i just want advice on what i should do to get her back.
     
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    great song :banderas:
     
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  20. KXNG
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    KXNG I want a drink

    Oct 29, 2015
    If we don't know the whole story, how are we supposed to give you advice?
     
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