May 2, 2016

timmy...

 

May 3, 2016

IMPORTANT: It's not about "actively searching" for a girlfriend. You need to focus on personal self improvement and women will notice.

• Working out + daily exercise is above all, most important. This will skyrocket your confidence, genuinely make you happier, and keep you healthy for life. Eat healthy. Don't go on a diet, change your eating habits forever. Opt for salads, stop buying junk food. Stop drinking soda. Avoid carbs at all cost. Even if you're in good shape now, make sure this becomes a lifelong habit. Do it for yourself. If you feel good, people will notice.
• Say yes to everything, especially in college. Go out and do things. This is the only way to meet people (and eventually a girlfriend). Go to events and join groups that interest you. Chances are, there will be girls there. Guess what, now you have something to talk about.
• Groom yourself. Get a haircut regularly. Shave. Floss. Cut your fingernails. Pluck your nose hairs. Pay attention to details. Dress better (check out Men's Fashion on Pinterest, seriously). Become handsome.
• Talk to EVERYONE. Just do it. Your teachers, the guy sitting next to you in class, the cashier at a restaurant, the old man across the street, the cute girl at the party. Even if you're just saying hi. A simple "How are you today?" can go a long way. People love talking about themselves. Make it a habit.
• Smile all the time. Smile at people. Smile when you walk into a room. Avoid the "bad mood Kanye" face at all cost.
• Become passionate about something. Whether it's art, travel, fitness, reading, local entrepreneurship, your major, etc. Find something unique that you love. Don't be the average guy with the same routine. Be interesting. Be open about it. Blog about it. Share it to Facebook. Share your passion with the world.
• Stop masturbating regularly, and especially stop looking at p---. This kills your motivation (to do anything) and p--- literally eats at your soul. You'll notice a spike in testosterone levels and confidence from abstaining from masturbation for even a few days. I'm not saying you have to stop completely, but lower your frequency to once every couple weeks.
• It's not about competing with other guys. It's about competing with your former self. Become a better you.

Attracting women is now the easy part. Be direct. Entertain her. Joke with her. Make her smile. Treat her like a f---ing person. Read social cues. Know when to quit trying. Don't invest all your time and attention into one girl. When texting, use proper grammar.

Most importantly, DON'T BE NEEDY. It's the number one turn off for women, period. Don't barrage her with texts. Don't be overly romantic. Texting her poems and things like "You're so beautiful" is gross and annoying. Don't take her on grandiose expensive first dates. Do something simple like drinks or just meeting up at a party. Show you have respect for yourself. You'll be happy if things work out or not. You're the only person in this world who determines your happiness.

Tinder/Bumble can help. You can read my Tinder guide here. Especially check out the post-match section, which can apply to situations outside of Tinder.




My last bit of advice, is don't get a girlfriend too quickly in college (or at all). You need to experience all different types of women before figuring out what/who you really want. Too many times I've seen an inexperienced guy fall for the first girl who showed him attention, only to regret wasting his time years later. College is about being free, discovering yourself, and meeting new people. Don't tie yourself down, especially when you're young. I spent virtually my entire college career in two different long term relationships, and I've spent the last 3 years finally being single, making up for lost time.

 

May 2, 2016

Work out. Dress well. Feel good about yourself. Don't fap too much. Opportunities will be there if you follow ABAP scripture.

 

May 3, 2016

 

May 4, 2016

You don't f---ing need one bro. They're all whores. You can do everything right and sloots will sloot. Get your nut from these sluts and kick them to the curb. Remember it's HOH2K16

f--- em, dump'em love'em leave'em....cus you don't f---ing need'em.

 

May 3, 2016

getting a girl in college is easy... you can strike up conversations by talking about anything school related (homework, plays, good restaurants, dorm life, etc)

after class you should try to get the numbers of at least 2 chicks and then text or call them later in the week about something minor like homework or asking her if she wants to go to the café and eat. She'd love not having to eat alone. also asking females for directions is a great way to start a conversation. you can also ask female classmates to help you with your hw... its a good and less creepy way of getting her to your dorm room rather than flat out asking her "hey would you like to come to my dorm for a bit and chill". or u could meet at the library.

from there its a matter of meeting different women with different interests...this is easily achieved by going to different places like the art gallery or the gym, the "hang out spot", or campus events if youre feeling a bit more confident.

I hope this helps...good luck!

 

May 3, 2016

I feel like I should start a relationship advice thread.

 

May 2, 2016

social butterfly lel

Just be confident and talk with lot's of girls on a regular basis. It's a lot easier in college too.

Tinder's kinda dead these days though.

 

May 6, 2016

@Jaya @I Am Juicy meet @TimmyT

 

May 2, 2016

Just f--- a round for a bit.... if you have never had a real girlfriend, you want to get your numbers up. Run through a few bad ones before you start thinking about settling down.

Just don't put any pressure on yourself. Be calm and confident and don't put any expectations on these meetings. You want to lay some ground work before you get serious...

I'm almost 30 and I love my girl, but some of my favorite memories... were just enjoying life when I was young and in college.

 

May 4, 2016

dont lie to me

 

May 2, 2016

don't use tinder. the vast majority of the girls are not responsive. i've been on tinder for a couple of years and have only met 2 girls. i also find it amazing that tinder is full of attractive women and somehow none of them have boyfriends. that makes absolutely no sense because attractive women aren't going to have any trouble finding a date/BF

my advice is to just approach them in real life and keep doing it until once digs you

 

May 2, 2016

fap all day err day

 

May 2, 2016

I've never had a girlfriend because I was never the social butterfly and I didn't have much confidence in high school. Now I'm in college, I feel ready to start searching. How did you guys find/get girlfriends? I was thinking about using Tinder but idk if its used more than just for hookups

 

May 3, 2016

Im a single girl. Taking applications immediately. Black guys only pls tyvm.

 

May 6, 2016

are we twins bc same

 

May 6, 2016

@JFK goat post. Showed the fiancé

 

May 4, 2016

this is why you single my mans