Jun 4, 2016 for example young boys are socialized to believe that when a girl says no she really means yes, that dating is a "game" and both males and females are "players". Boys are taught that females understand this same concept when it comes to sex and that the ultimate goal is to "score", "go all the way" .....im sure as a male these are terms youve heard growing up referencing sex to being a game. how this applies is that boys have the understanding that a girl is just "playing the game" when she says no. not genuinely expressing that she doesnt want the action. females are not socialized with that same game mentality when it comes to sex. so in that instance males are taught r--- is okay...only its disguised as "playing a game"
Jun 4, 2016 This is total crap. No offense. Boys are NOT socialized to believe no means yes. I agree that dating and sex is viewed as a game by many, but that's not r---. If a guy is sleeping around, it makes him a jackass, not a r--ist. "Scoring" is not raping.
Jun 4, 2016 Coming from the guy who literally cried to the mods to change his name because people made fun of u for naming yourself in love with the c---. Obviously I'm joking about that trap s--- you f---ing p----.
Jun 4, 2016 i was never implying that sleeping around is the equivalent to r--- behavior. and the point im getting at is "scoring" without consent is r--- ..and men have recounted that yes they were taught that a girl can mean yes but say no..not every male but in some communities males agree they were taught this
Jun 4, 2016 Literally cried? are you r-----ed? Yeah, a 23 year old bearded man that f---ing throws venomous snakes around with his bare hands literally cried because of his username online. also, this is like an insult that a 4 fingered dominoes delivery driver used 2 years ago now? fucken h--- buddy, you need to step it up
Jun 4, 2016 Lol. I'll k--- myself at 23 if I end up bragging, acting big over playing with some b---- a--- snakes. Maybe you can start off by shaving, bum.
Jun 4, 2016 mate, your a f---ing fa---- year old that brags about drink driving, go wrap your car around a pole u c----
Jun 4, 2016 I've never met any guy who was taught that yes can mean no. I've only seen this theory online. Until someone provides evidence of this so called r--- culture, I don't believe in it at all. When someone says "gun culture" or "consumerism culture", it's obvious what they're talking about. This is not one of those obvious phrase
Jun 4, 2016 Hopefully, this is just a case of a chick feeling like s--- after she gave consent and not an actual r--- case. Also, was Gibbs management aware of this warrant before going back to Europe? That's the kind of thing they should be aware of, especially since it could affect his money.
Jun 4, 2016 im not really talking about theories, im talking about the way acquiring sex is achieved from the male and female perspective...and its not as obvious because r--- isnt a topic that is talked about as much as gun culture or consumerism....s--- people cant even agree on a clear definition for r--- so you cant expect it to be understood like those topics....also r--- involves a deeper understanding of emotions and thats not always easy to talk about compared to say the handle on a rifle or if guns should be allowed certain places.
Jun 4, 2016 I don't really think one needs a deeper understanding of emotions to understand r---. Like wpg said, it's non-consensual sex. I still don't see this r--- culture that people are talking about.
Jun 4, 2016 well yes some people do need a deeper understanding of their emotions to know that what happened to them was a r---..... and thats because in society we are taught that r--- is only one thing ..."when a women is grabbed off guard and a male forcibly inserts his penis in her" but r--- includes other scenarios that do not follow this narrative.
Jun 4, 2016 slipping a molly in someones drink without them knowing and then taking them back to your place (whether they say yes or no its arguable that they might not have said yes if they hadnt taken the molly) in this situation no one was "forced" against their physical will but a r--- occurred because consent was not given (due to having taken a molly) if you grew up thinking that she said yes so its okay thats what r--- culture is describing
Jun 5, 2016 I agree that's r---. I guess you meant "emotions" in that way. I still need evidence of this r--- culture tho. Like how the media or schools portray it. I'm not 100% percent convinced it doesn't exist. I just never understand what someone means when they say that. I don't see it
Jun 5, 2016 were not talking about some govt conspiracy plotted against people..its not schools or media that portray this, its how human beings learn to interact with one another....through watching and mimicking the behaviors of elders, peers, role models, etc...
Jun 5, 2016 I think we should end this tbh. You're being very abstract here and I don't think it'll help my understanding any further.
Jun 5, 2016 sorry that was my sad attempt at being funny.. but all r--- culture proposes is the idea that how we learn to interact with each other sets up the potential for a r--- to occur some would take it further to include the media as being a tool for learning "r--- behaviors" but i dont personally agree...and its hard to find evidence that TV is teaching people how to r---
Jun 5, 2016 @BigCountry I need your opinion on this r--- culture thing. I feel like you can articulate things very well and are very informed with current issues. I would tag wpg but i don't want a condescending answer lol
