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  1. Ordinary Joel
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    Ordinary Joel Happiness begins when selfishness ends

    Mar 8, 2017
    I'm not sure

    :kapppa:
     
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  2. shahidah
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    shahidah watch me work it JT

    Mar 7, 2017
    :emoji_triumph:Why do guys act dumb when u ask them a straightforward question....

    [​IMG]


    for example...
    you ask them
    "who is this b---- that's been calling u every night"
    and he replies...
    "idk that girl"

    :emoji_triumph::emoji_triumph::emoji_open_mouth::emoji_frowning::emoji_neutral_face::emoji_neutral_face::emoji_neutral_face::emoji_slight_frown::emoji_angry::emoji_angry::emoji_persevere::emoji_neutral_face::emoji_neutral_face::emoji_fearful:

    you can ask them the simplest of questions and they respond as if u asked a question on physics or some s--- that really needs some explanation like...

    girl: "why you didn't call me when you got home..?

    boy: "I got caught up"

    WTF does that even mean?!?!!!?!

    someone help cause this don't make no sense??



    also ... How do u expect females to respond in these types of situations?
     
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  3. Final
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    Final ⚘

    Mar 9, 2017
    If you want chick A.... start hanging out with chick B
    Chick A will be yours by the end of the week

    Guaranteed :final:
     
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  4. Lucy
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    Lucy #1

    Mar 9, 2017
    Yeah not too sure on that side of the situation. I find that as soon as I find interest in a girl/begin talking more and getting closer, some random female from years ago will appear out of the blue like "hey man i thot u were hot in highschool hmu for birthday sex lol!" and everytime i'm just like "u fucken come out from underneath your rock, right f---ing now?"
    i don't know how women do it, but they manage it.
     
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  5. Ricky
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    Ricky Hip-Hop CEO

    Mar 8, 2017
    Where's Ja Rule?
     
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  6. Soldier
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    Soldier big cuntry's alias

    Mar 9, 2017
    yall some f---ing snitches
     
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  7. Mike Tyson
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    Mike Tyson big cuntry's alias

    Mar 9, 2017
    smh truer words have never been written bro @Poohdini

    :laff:

    prospects double soon as you catch a vibe you want to keep, but maybe because you're actively building the roster leading up to that point since you're putting yourself out there. and then once you catch a vibe, the bench players start hurting for the attention.
     
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  8. Mike Tyson
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    Mike Tyson big cuntry's alias

    Mar 9, 2017
    this is all true, but the issue is he's lying about other females too.

    so if he was just saying things like "i got caught up", yeah i've been in the exact situation coco just described and said the exact same s--- BUT the fact he's also entertaining other females while ignoring you means it's deeper than just that.

    you're 110% being cheated on.
     
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  9. Poohdini
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    Poohdini MVP MVP

    Mar 9, 2017
    Dude sounds like worst liar OAT. Nothing you can really do about it other than leaving him.
     
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  10. Loyalty
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    Loyalty we go hard on earth

    Mar 8, 2017
    Sounds like he's hiding something or just doesn't want you to be an important part of his life

    dump his a---, you're above that ish
     
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  11. Poohdini
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    Mar 9, 2017
    Otherwise he just saying that s--- so he can hit raw tbh
     
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  12. Poohdini
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    Mar 9, 2017
    Idk what it is, maybe just the challenge for them but yeah happens almost all the time.
     
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  13. Final
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    Final ⚘

    Mar 9, 2017
    Lmao yessss chicks have a sense on when a dude is thinking about getting with girl.. it inititates some strange hormone reaction where they feel the need to claim you real quick before the other chick does

    [​IMG]
     
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  14. Lucy
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    Lucy #1

    Mar 9, 2017
    Only reading OP and not rest of thread. But i think it's cause guys don't care about texts and s--- like that for the most part.
    Like yeah, there are times when you want to text and speak to your significant other or sex buddy, but think of how often you text your girl/guy friends just to chat. Like for me, it's rare that i'll send a text to a mate like "hey man whats up how you been, whatchu do today?" like I think for the most part we all just save that s--- for real interactions with each other.

    So when dudes say things like "i was busy" or "i got caught up" to me that's honestly some s--- like, "i worked all day and played a video game for a few hours, but i want you to think of me as a perfect high-test alpha so i was just busy lol"

    Like for me personally, there are just times where I'll see a message, read it but then have absolutely no motivation to respond because i know it's going to be a back and forth afterwards and I don't want to focus on conversing through text for an hour, while i'm doing stuff.
     
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  15. Final
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    Final ⚘

    Mar 9, 2017
    @shahidah I'm not trying to be mean. Typically if a guy is interested in dating a girl he will talk to her and make time to talk to her... it's really that simple. If he's not interested he's not gonna respond. Maybe late at night when he's bored or something but if he's genuinely into you, he will reply


    Some guys just go thru the motions without that emotional part it's just how we are
     
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  16. Mano
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    Mano

    Mar 9, 2017
    :lmaooo:
     
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  17. Enigma
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    Enigma Civil liberties > Police safety

    Mar 8, 2017
    This exactly. He's either hiding something or doesn't care enough.
     
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  18. Poohdini
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    Mar 9, 2017
    It's happened with more than 1 guy? Idk then maybe you just make them nervous af.
     
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  19. shahidah
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    shahidah watch me work it JT

    Mar 9, 2017

    oh I see...
     
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  20. Lucy
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    Lucy #1

    Mar 9, 2017
    I was talking to this one girl, wasn't even sure if i was gonna make a move or not, wasnt even sure if i was interested as well. Rock up to a party and 3 other females immediately hit me with "come out side for a sec" so i go out there, these 3 are then like "dont kiss that girl"

    all of my what.

    Sometimes I truly think a primal sense of smell comes into play and pheromones and hormones or other f---ing scientific atoms start giving off weird signals. it's honestly astounding.

    Even if you don't even find interest in a girl, but start talking to one, you'll get a guaranteed "hey" in your inbox from a random chick you havent spoke to in a decade
     
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