Nov 19, 2015 I'm paraphrasing but I've had this conversation. It went something like, "this isn't the right time for us. Take care of it for now and then we can plan when the time is right. We don't want to be one of those couples who are broke because of kids. Do we really want that for our child? Lets make sure we have everything in place before we make this step in our relationship. I definitely want to have kids with you ASAP but lets make the right financial decision as well."
Nov 19, 2015 I'm just saying don't say take care of it when you literally mean do the opposite by murdering it
Nov 19, 2015 LOL. No. I mean take care of it like take care of this PROBLEM. As in, our LIVES are ruined and put into slow motion because of this unborn idea. Solve our issue and eliminate it. To each their own.
Nov 19, 2015 I'm okay with that response, but it's for her sake as well. She was a beautiful woman. No reason to ruin her body and life for potential drama. Of course there is a chance it worked out between us, but we barely knew each other. Why put a child through that? I'd pay child support and do my best to take the child from her to be honest, but it is a mistake. We were both successful young adults. Why ruin two lives for the potential of one? I would have sacrificed everything if it formed into a real person, but we needed to think of our futures.
Nov 19, 2015 When I was 18 I had my first pregnancy scare/had unprotected sex for the first time, it was with this dude I knew from high school and we were bored one night.... and I definitely didn't want a relationship with him. He was a fine a--- mixed dude but terrible personality. So my period was late like 3 weeks and I figured that I was pregnant and I decided I would keep it because it'd be a cute a--- mixed baby so why not nah but really I wanted to keep it if he wanted to be in my life or not. I was debating adoption still. I ended up not being pregnant I just had ovarian cysts lmaooooo but yeah it was rough to go through that mental process.
Nov 19, 2015 This just happened to one of my best mates. She made the really smart decision of not telling him until she was about 32 weeks pregnant because she was "too scared" so he had no choice. I'm off to see the baby tomorrow. I would keep it and deal with it. Plus I'm 22 so hypothetically I'm not far off the years whete it's okay to have a baby anyway, as in like maturity wise and career wise.
