Serious Your friend is taking advantage of a drunk girl at a party, who will you help?

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  1. Big Mitch
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    Big Mitch You never made me ran once

    Nov 6, 2015
    i've honestly never been in this type of situation. typically when i'm at a bar or party, both me and the girl are pretty drunk. yeah, i'm sure as h--- gonna try to take you back with me but it's not like i'm there slipping pills in your drinks or buying you shot after shot.

    if the girl accepts my offer to buy her a drink right away i'll be more likely to not buy her any after that tbh. girls will use the f--- outta you to get drinks. the one's that play hard to get are the most worth it, and more likely to come back with you or take you with them. if that's the case, it's highly doubtful you're taking advantage of them. even if i see a friend trying to get a girl, i'm not gonna stop him because you don't know his situation. i also know my friends well enough that they would never go take advantage of a girl. we're all mature enough to understand that r--- is pretty f----- up.

    but nothing pisses me off more than a girl that brings me back to her place or comes to mine and gets in bed and then decides to go to sleep tho. actually, that's fine, but if you get up and leave right away in the morning without even thanking me for getting your drunk a--- home... f--- outta here. not even a blowie.

    sorry this kinda turned into a rant about my night haha. but yeah. i agree in someways with the add but i feel like it's not that realistic.
     
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  2. gorealsteady
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    Nov 6, 2015
    That's a cop out and you know it. It was perfectly okay for me to equate one type of villain with another. Just because a rapists victim is often a girl instead of a guy doesn't change shi. I'm disappointed C-Wizzy :wow2:
     
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  3. Chad Warden
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    Nov 6, 2015
    No it's not lol. A guy isn't going to r--- 400 people at once you moron.

    A terrorist can k--- a bunch of people, that's not the same as r---. And no, I'm not saying r--- isn't a bad thing, I'd probably rather die than be r---d.
     
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  4. Chad Warden
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    You're acting as if I said we should get rid of r--- awareness lol, I just said it isn't very effective.
     
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    Dude what are you trying to say? To let rapists get an easy-pass because they're catching less bodies??
     
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    what

    i said nothing about prison sentences, rapists should be locked up for a long time
     
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  7. gorealsteady
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    Not just awareness, a moral stance against any type of subduing behaviour would help.. the more the merrier. If more people would try to behave themselves it would have a gigantic influence on the whole of society.
     
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    I'm talking about pro-active measures that enhance the safety of people going out.
     
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  9. Chad Warden
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    What the f--- is a moral stance? Men aren't going to risk their lives, this is the most pussified generation in the history of existance, there's one guy with honor for every five hundred spineless cowards. MEN AREN'T RISKING THEIR LIVES FOR DRUNK GIRLS.
     
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    Don't drink too much sweetheart, you don't know what choices you'll make, or what situation you'll end up in.

    Okay, Dad Warden.

    Son, you must know that it's wrong to hook up with drunk girls. It's tempting, I know, but it's wrong.

    Okay, Dad Warden.
     
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    You're trying to make it seem like it's the girls fault for not being helped against a r--ist/molester...

    Again if we reward courageous behaviour in any way.. more people would dare to take a stance.
     
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  12. Michael Myers
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    Nov 6, 2015
    It's pointless dude.
    The ones who can prevent it the most are the women themselves. Not that it should be like this, but it is. If one of my friends would do it of course I would stop them, but if you're at a party and you don't notice it -alcohol, crowd, music- strangers mostly don't do s--- about it
     
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    > it's always been this way, it will never change

    Yeh right *George Costanza face*
     
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    whatever i gotta do other stuff :emoji_wink: nice debate
     
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    HOW!?!?!?!!?!?!!?

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    It's not the girls fault. It's just stupid to be drunk around horny young men. It's stupid, irresponsible behavior. They are still victims of r--- regardless of that fact, but your children should know the harsh realities of real life. That if you're a drunk, vulnerable girl, you could get r---d.

    I'm literally shi--ing on men right now. I am admitting, as another man, that men are dangerous in situations like those.
     
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    Yeh your thoughtprocess is dark.

    You're not only condoning but defending the bad behaviour of men. I humbly believe that is one of mankinds greatest downfalls.
     
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    [QUOTE="gorealsteady, post: 1247454, member: 27093128"]Yeh your thoughtprocess is dark.

    You're not only condoning but defending the behaviour of men. I humbly believe that is one of mankinds greatest downfall.[/QUOTE]


    The world isn't a nice place. The moon isn't made of cheese and the streets aren't paved with gold.
     
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    The world isn't a nice place. The moon isn't made of cheese and the streets aren't paved with gold.[/QUOTE]
    No s---, but you should never give up fighting for what's right.
     
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  19. Michael Myers
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    Nov 6, 2015
    You are acting so naive. Just because you are 'civil', 'against bullying and bad behaviour' doesn't mean all people are. There are a lot pieces of s--- out there who don't give a s--- whether something is wrong.
     
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    I know, but that doesn't mean i should give up being civil.
     
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