Serious Your friend is taking advantage of a drunk girl at a party, who will you help?

Started by Lil Wayne, Nov 6, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    Nov 6, 2015
    It invites rapists and rapists exist. Just because we're not rapists doesn't mean others aren't. You should be taking precautions and not doing reckless things in vulnerable situations. Woman are much more vulnerable than men so extra care must be taken

    Bear in mind there are all sorts of rapes. I think that a girl being reckless and passing out drunk at a party or nightclub toilets is also partly to blame if guys sexually abuse her. But it's not the same if say she finished work and is going to her car and gets dragged and r---d somewhere. One was being extremely irresponsible and reckless and the other was just going about her day

    No it doesn't justify the r---. The r--ist should still be punished no ones denying any of that. But she should have known better
     
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  2. Enigma
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    Enigma Civil liberties > Police safety

    Nov 6, 2015
    While we're at it, we should all be more cautious and wear bullet proof vests while walking through shady neighborhoods. Wouldn't want to be blamed for getting shot.
     
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  3. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    Nov 6, 2015
    Implying the rapists aren't getting the blame when it's not like that. Besides that's not even the same thing but if we really want to compare other irrelevant situations, walking by and getting shot is more like the girl walking by a park and getting dragged to the bushes and r---d

    We were talking about in a party environment where it's known to be a risky sexual environment that attracts immoral men and dirty behaviour, it's already a risky environment as it is. Being a girl and getting drunk off your t-ts without any sort of foresight, hopefully you make it home safely. If you do get f----- while passed out, well that's unfortunate and hopefully the r--ist gets what's coming to him. But you should also accept that you were a dumb ho


    While we're talking about other irrelevant situations. If I go to an ISIS stronghold in Syria campaigning about human rights abuse and get beheaded. No matter how wrong or cruel they are I should accept I was a dumb c----
     
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  4. JMG
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    JMG

    Nov 7, 2015
    No b---- is getting taking advanage of. They came to the party Dtf and got drunk ready to put out.
     
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  5. Rebel★Che
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    Rebel★Che I'm The Fat Black Girl Half of the Ying Yang!

    Nov 7, 2015
    I'd helping the girl

    ....some of these responses are.....quite........though I shouldn't be surprised
     
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  6. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    Nov 7, 2015
    just to make my stance clear I'd also help the girl but still think she's r-----ed af

    You need to understand what you think the world should be and what it really is are two different things
     
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  7. DKC
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    DKC shortygonletmecrush

    Nov 7, 2015
    1. Don't do this in Life
    2. Banned you from the thread
    3. "Edgy" JMG is the least funny JMG. I know you're funnier than this
     
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  8. DKC
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    DKC shortygonletmecrush

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    Wow I'm reading the topic now and lots of people said basically what JMG said but less blunt.

    Yeah, in today's society, it's probably dumb for a girl to get drunk by herself with a bunch of random drunk guys she doesn't know. But that's at the fault of our society, not her. It's awful that our world is like this, but also sad that people resort to victim-blaming.
     
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  9. Enigma
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    Enigma Civil liberties > Police safety

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    @Michael Myers and you expect me to take him seriously....
     
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  10. Nitz
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    Nov 7, 2015
    my friends aren't rapists tho
     
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  11. Michael Myers
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    Nov 7, 2015
    Nah, don't agree with this lol. But like big country said, a lot of people share (parts of his) opinion but explain it differently. My thoughts on this particular subject I explained on page 2/3.

    Sure there are girls who do what jmg said, but most of them just look for a good time and some of them are very naive.. in reality there are a lot pieces of s--- out there, sadly, and they -girls- should think about that. But of course, that isn't to blame on them at all.


    Edit: alchemist kind of covers what I said on those pages @Enigma
     
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  12. pHiLLip fARkLe
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    pHiLLip fARkLe Goofiest Poster on the Forum, Ever.

    Nov 7, 2015
    myself.
    i call sloppy seconds
     
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  13. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    Nov 7, 2015
    People have blown this whole "don't blame the victim" s--- way out of proportion to the point that it's impossible to put any responsibility on the victims at all
     
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    Views New nikka, just new nikka

    Nov 7, 2015
    fu- u dre, get out of my head
     
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  15. Cyreides
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    Cyreides gfy

    Nov 7, 2015
    date r--- is bad, mmkay

    would obv. stop it
     
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  16. Oldboy
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    Nov 7, 2015
    i dont have friends like that
     
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  17. CODEiNE DEMON
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    CODEiNE DEMON One foot stuck in the tarpit of my ways

    Nov 7, 2015
    K but if a girl is drunk she went to the bar tryna get smashed anyway tf

    Obv if she rejects your advances then f--- off don't be a creep but assuming someone went to a bar to have a good time isn't some crazy leap in logic only predatory males make
     
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  18. DKC
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    DKC shortygonletmecrush

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    What are you even trying to say here?
     
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  19. Oldboy
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    Nov 7, 2015
    basically what jmg and 4 others have said lol...but someone is so butthurt by jmg that he decides to only report his posts

    this is what i meant in the other thread
     
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  20. Narsh
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    Nov 7, 2015
    the thread was about what you would do if your friend was on the verge of sexually abusing a girl

    jmg's post had nothing to do with that.

    but yeah ok
     
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