Serious Jealousy - Paranoia .. such a thin line

Started by Oldboy, Oct 5, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Oldboy
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    so i trust my wife..i rly do...but anyone else get so jealous that sometimes you start having ugly thoughts about trust?

    like im not the jealous type...but when i get jealous i become ugly
     
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  2. Oldboy
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    @Narsh how do you deal with your bfs?
     
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  3. Jaya
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    I'm a psychopath 24/7 but I trust him if that makes sense.
    Bless my bf's heart
     
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  4. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    Oct 5, 2015
    there is acceptable jealousy. Someone clearly hitting on your partner won't feel good

    It's probably mostly insecurity without you realising it if you're sexually satisfying your partner enough there's a much much lower chance of infidelity occurring
     
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  5. Oldboy
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    are you saying im insecure ? :lol3:
     
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  6. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

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    Everyone has their reasons but insecurity can be a big factor in jealousy. If there was some pie chart, insecurity would be most of it. Which is probably broken down to other factors too. For example one can be insecure of him/herself because they might feel they aren't good enough or it can be because said partner has a history of crossing lines or being too promiscuous. And many other factors
     
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  7. Jordan
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    What are you like when you become ugly?
     
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  8. Oldboy
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    confrontation to the max
     
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  9. Immy
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    Oct 6, 2015
    It's even worse when something in your life has given you a reason to trust issues
     
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    That's understandable when the jealousy is valid (that's not always the case). Is it always valid? If yeah, then you're good imo.
     
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  11. shahidah
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    Oct 6, 2015
    jealousy is a normal human trait... it's part of what motivates us as humans to protect ourselves and our loved ones....do those negative thoughts about her cheating last? Or they go away?
     
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    oh they go away like 2 mins later
     
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  13. shahidah
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    I think you're good you just love your wife lol. ...I wonder who shows jealousy more, men or women
     
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    'Shows' I would say men but internally I think it's possible women may take the cake.
     
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    Lol I can agree with that
     
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    Yeah I mean I'm a guy so can't confirm obviously but I think women may actually be the more jealous type it's just not as externally obvious as men.
     
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    Difference between jealous and territorial.
     
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  18. JMG
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    Love my gf but it's hard to give full trust these days. Not that I don't want to but I know how temptation is. I'd rather keep my guard up.
     
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    Drake got my back :emoji_heart:
     
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