Serious My best mates girlfriend is hitting on me.. urm

Started by Immy, Oct 30, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Immy
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    Oct 30, 2015
    Basically I've known my best friend for 16 years and we're practically brothers. He has been going out with his FIRST & ONLY Girlfriend/First Love for around 2 years and s--- was all cool, I didnt bother her and she never bothered me and were barely spoke ect. My best friend recently went on a holiday to Spain and doesn't have his phone so I cant contact him anyway but...

    HIS GIRL KEEPS ON TEXTING ME AND SHE'S ASKING IF WE CAN HOOK UP COS SHES FEELING LONELY AND HE WILL NEVER HAVE TO KNOW. I've already shut her down
    I obv know I should instantly tell him the moment he comes back to England But this chick is his first ever gf and he is "in love" with her loads and it'll break his little heart. Do i tell her to stop being a slut and then bury it under the rug or instantly tell him and then be his shoulder to cry on? (He has a history of self harming and stuff and I wont be home that much due to Uni so he could be in a very fragile mindstate)
     
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  2. SHUDEYE
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    SHUDEYE Kerser is the sickest.

    Oct 30, 2015
    Tell him when he gets home and supply evidence.
     
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  3. Guma
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    Oct 30, 2015
    d--- fam that's hard. It would be fair to tell him about that.
     
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  4. CSA
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    Oct 30, 2015
    Dude. I have been with a hoe like that before. We were just hanging out with her and she begged me to be her boyfriend. He made my bros talk to me about her loving me so much and we should be more than sex partners or something like that. One of my best friends was her friend before I met the girl and he was like her close friend but he fell in love with her but She didn't love him and my friend was so insecure to just talk to the girl about his feelings and he never told me about it neither. So we ended up being darlings with the girl but one day I learned that she held my friend's hand in front of my other bros and was being so close to him. We argued about those things with her and broke up. But she didn't stop texting to my friend WHO was in love with her. She just toyed with his emotions for like years.

    I don't know how much I able to tell you my story cuz Im on my phone now and in a rush. But what I've been tryin' to say as a man who experienced similar situation, you should tell all of those about him. Really. Cuz these type of girls don't deserve to be loved like ever.
     
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  5. boyz n the suburbs
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    boyz n the suburbs In my city, I'm a young God

    Oct 30, 2015
    He'll get over it.
    Better heart broken knowing the truth now rather than later when he finds her in a 70 man gangbang in a McDonalds bathroom.
     
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  6. Thy
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    Oct 30, 2015
    Does he listen to a lotta Drake too?
     
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  7. Immy
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    Oct 30, 2015
    he hates hip-hop smh he a country boy
     
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  8. Immy
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    tru tru tru
     
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  9. Thy
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    Oct 30, 2015
    Then you good. d-ck her down as much as possible and then when the boy comes back, snitch on her. Win-Win situation.
     
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    :sweatt:i aint bout that life
     
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  11. Thy
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    Oct 30, 2015
    Why not? You gay?
     
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  12. Immy
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    Oct 30, 2015
    only 4 u
     
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  13. Thy
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    Oct 30, 2015
    and Aubrey :emoji_wink:
     
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  14. KXNG
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    KXNG I want a drink

    Oct 30, 2015
    Easy two steps.
    • Tell him his girlfriend is a b---- a--- hoe, show him proof
    • Advise him to break up with her, and help him get over her.
     
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  15. Disclosure
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    Disclosure R&B Stan

    Oct 30, 2015
    Tell him. The sooner the better, he's just wasting time if he stays with her for longer, she aint gonna change.

    Props for shutting her down
     
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  16. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    Oct 30, 2015
    Literally never happened
     
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  17. Lil Squeed
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    Oct 30, 2015
    Give her the D
     
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  18. shahidah
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    shahidah watch me work it JT

    Oct 30, 2015
    Tell her stop being a horny slut, she can wait till the friend comes back. And you should tell the friend, and show the evidence.

    And besides, I thought we were starting something? :crying2:
     
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    Oct 30, 2015
     
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  20. Nick
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    Oct 30, 2015
    I knew this was an immy thread.
     
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