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Started by Immy, Sep 9, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Immy
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    Immy yikes

    Sep 9, 2015
    One of the reasons im making this thread is 99% of the people who I know would be so pissed if i told them this lol.

    Basically 3 years ago the first person I ever "Loved" broke my heart(cba to go into detail). I thought I got over her for real then I met my current girlfriend and it was going fine. My ex texted me like 3 hours ago (we dont speak at all now) and ive been sitting on this text for 2 hours and for some bizarre reason I replied and we been talking for ages and Ive come to the conclusion that I still "love" her enit and I dont want to be going out with someone right now if i dont truly love them if that makes any sense I dont want my current girlfriend to feel like side chick or a rebound even after all this time. idk what to do real talk

    edit: I Broke up with my Ex cos she was a mad dickhead
     
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  2. RetiredAccount
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    RetiredAccount Big Time Stuntin Like My Daddy

    Sep 9, 2015
    follow your heart
     
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  3. Immy
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    I legit hate my ex though she f----- me up but there is something about her I cant ever hate. I like my current girlfriend but it's not the same if that makes any sense
     
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  4. Poohdini
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    Sep 9, 2015
    Idk bruh, depends on the situation honestly, like why did she break up with you in the 1st place? By all means if you're not feeling it with your current gf, let her go cause that's not fair to either of you. If you get back together with your ex, you have to keep in mind what she's capable of doing to you. If you can live with that, go for it.
     
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  5. Immy
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    Sep 9, 2015
    Ill Inbox you the reason and I do like my current girlfriend alot but the "spark" isnt there like it was and she has never provoked this type of emotional s--- on me before
     
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  6. gorealsteady
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    Sep 9, 2015
    She playing u breh. If she broke your heart then she didn't love you. Don't respond to her a---, she probably has no one left to talk to so she looks for a shoulder to cry on. Or something really unique musta happened.. but i doubt it.
     
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  7. Jaba24
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    Jaba24 Merry Christmas!

    Sep 9, 2015
    This girl broke up with you once. She isnt gonna get back and stay with you. Ive dealt with girls like this. If youre not happy with ur current girl, end it. but DO NOT go back to this b---- from 3 yrs ago.
     
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  8. Immy
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    She always tries to text me lol i just ignore her, Idk why i replied today
     
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  9. gorealsteady
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    gorealsteady heal & create

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    Don't fam.. never heard good stories coming out of that.

    She got over you, so it's best if you keep your honor and don't respond when she suddenly needs you.
     
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  10. Immy
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    I feel if i break up with my current girlfriend for this reason i'll break her heart man. I feel really stuck right now
     
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  11. Jaba24
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    Jaba24 Merry Christmas!

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    Well i mean if ur not happy u have to move on and she will get over it

    if u break up with this girl dont go back to the girl from 3 yrs ago
     
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  12. Immy
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    The thing is I was happy until about 3 hours ago. I didn't really realise I liked her still
     
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  14. Immy
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    nah for real that actually made me laugh
     
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  15. Jaba24
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    Jaba24 Merry Christmas!

    Sep 9, 2015
    ur just experiencing old feelings. this b---- f---ing broke ur heart once. she WILL do it again. She probs has no one else so is going back to you just cus she is lonely.
     
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    :wiggins: thanks bro
     
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  17. Poohdini
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    From my experience that feeling comes from the way the relationship ended, since it obviously wasn't mutual or your decision. It's kind of like wanting what you can't have. She prolly texted you cause you're a good guy and she realized she f----- up, but 9/10 times the relationship will end the same way. Unless you're an ice cold killer and get back together with her to hit it and quit it.
     
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  18. Ricky
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    Sep 9, 2015
    This :Em6:

    My ex recently broke up with her current bf and I'm afraid she might message me soon
     
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  19. Jaba24
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    Jaba24 Merry Christmas!

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    np man. Ive been through similar s---. Sadly I didnt listen to advice ppl gave me and I got back with the b----. I am much smarter now. DONT TRUST WOMEN UNTIL THEY PROVE THEMSELVES
     
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  20. RockstarX3000
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    Sep 9, 2015
    @DetroitSkills Gave me some good relationship advice, maybe he can help you @Immy?
     
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