Sep 20, 2015 Definitely not. It kinda depends on the situation I guess. If it was a girl I dated for two months 10 years ago that's fine but if it's a girl I was with years, lived with, had kids with, etc and a friend dated/hooked up with her I'd never speak to him again.
Sep 20, 2015 Depends how long they dated, how long after they broke up, and what the circumstances of their breakup was.
Sep 20, 2015 I liked her before he got with her enit and they went out for 3 months which isnt that long but she messaging me and im tempted uno
Sep 20, 2015 Well either way he's gonna find out tbh. It's up to you to know your friend well enough to decide whether he'll care. It's not up to us to decide if it's okay it's essentially up to him.
Sep 20, 2015 Well eventually it's up to yourself what's more important to you.. friendship or the girl (in case he isn't happy with it)
Sep 20, 2015 I know the type but still I value friendships over something that could potentially be a fling. If you know he's gonna carry on I generally am of the opinion it's not worth it. I've not gone through with some pretty good situations with girls because I thought it might hurt a mate and I gotta be honest I have no regrets.
Sep 20, 2015 Yeah but what I mean is it's essentially the friend who decides whether it's a big deal or not. I'm on the business end of a graveyard shift right now so I can't express my thoughts as well as normally too ha.
