Dec 11, 2016 Longstory short, I got this girl off bumble and we'd been talking for a solid minute. Got her to add me on snapchat. We start chatting some more and I say f--- it, might as well just be direct and ask her out. Why invest a ton of time into getting to know her if she'll just end up friendzoning me since we'd become good friends first. To my surprise she said she'd like to. At this point im like She slim thick and im hyped. Surprised tho, cause im a 5/10 real s--- and I don't pull no 8s ever, but she was eating up all the lines I threw at her and jokes I was rollin with. Then when I was picking a time for when we'd meet and stuff. She stopped replying. I check my snap story and she viewed it. Im thinking she didn't get a good look at my profile pic. But she aint replied since and I aint about to double text no woman. All this to ask, how do you personally deal with rejection? Me personally:
Dec 11, 2016 just dont see rejection as a bad thing its key man see rejection as just a missed lay up u got more shots coming with other hoops
Dec 11, 2016 Ive been rejected so many times it's just w/e tbh, I aint stressin. A bit of salt tho only cause I Desean Jackson'd and started celebratin before I got the touchdown lol
Dec 11, 2016 dwell in misery until i die no id just brush that s--- off quick when i realize "boom! theres like 7 gazillion other chicks on the planet"
Dec 11, 2016 & I think you should just bounce back. It's better to get rejected so you can say at least you did it and have no regrets. Just move to the next chick. And don't think bout yaself as a 5/10. Have confidence like you the dopest n----- in the room
Dec 11, 2016 lol my bad bro i forgot to reply another time to it, she wasnt serious bro she played u thats why i was like this aint a good look but it is what it is do the same s--- with another girl and see what pops
Dec 11, 2016 True. Its over now told her she was boring and she unfriended me and posted "Hmu?" On instagram with zero likes
Dec 11, 2016 I just aint attractive my G. Gotta rely on other stuff. Making good money, bought myself a sports car, got a good personality according to my friends. Im secure overall, but I aint baggin like my other dudes who are better looking but aint got s--- to show for s---. Im not an introvert either, Im real outgoing, but I just got used to striking out with me. At this points its like who f---ing cares. Get rejected a hundred times but it only takes 1 win to make it all aight
Dec 11, 2016 I can feel that. My first win, I left the girl like "wow, how come we never hooked up before I dated 40 lames" I see myself as a hidden gem. I pulled up to school once on my '05 Kanye polo s--- and I was getting necks while they were with their dude. They're missing out u make nice threads
Dec 11, 2016 I've seen all types of rejections. I proposed to a girl, and she said no. I've asked several chicks out, even got nude pics from some of them and STILL got rejected in the end. I hooked up with a chick several times, and thought we should be in a relationship, and got rejected for that. She only wanted the D (This wasn't a complete rejection since I smashed, but from my perspective it was). You win some, you lose some. I will say the one thing that helped me get over it all was working on ME. Focusing on me and improving on myself made all the rejection i've seen not even matter.
Dec 11, 2016 rejection is all good bro, i've gone through it too but i don't really care. get your shots up, no one is going to s---t at 100%. just honestly fap it out, post fap clarity takes the emotions out of every situation and you'll realize you never had nothing with this girl so your situation is really no different than it was before. you're all good, the way i see it it's her loss.
Dec 11, 2016 orrrrr take it from FUTURE the GOD himself: I watched my broad give up on me like I'm average I went back inside the attic, count it up and started laughing, ah
