How many of you have friends of the opposite sex?

Started by TimmyT, Apr 11, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

Do you have friends of the opposite sex?

  1. Yes

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    87.2%
  2. No

    5 vote(s)
    12.8%
  1. TimmyT
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    TimmyT Self-Taught

    Apr 11, 2015
    let me preface this by saying i mean FRIENDS, not acquaintances

    i was talking to a girl about this a day or two ago. we were sorta talking about relationships and how she got together with her boyfriend, and we ended up talking about this thing about whether or not guys and girls can be strictly friends.

    i don't have any females friends. i'm not opposed to it, i just don't have any. i do believe that males and females can be just friends, but i also believe its very unlikely. in my experience, most of the times the guy ends up liking the girl romantically or the girl ends up liking the guy romantically. and once that happens, you are no longer friends.

    another reason why, in my view, guys and girls being strictly friends is unlikely is because males and females don't generally have similar interests (which is usually how ppl become friends) and thus they aren't likely to become friends.

    so, am i crazy......or am i correct in assuming that most of you don't have friends of the opposite sex?
     
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  2. Big Mitch
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    Big Mitch You never made me ran once

    Apr 11, 2015
    I have plenty. It's a lot easier when there are girls just down the hall. I usually go out with them and some friends on the weekend. Hanging out with a bunch of girls can get annoying as f--- tho.
     
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  3. because the internet
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    Apr 11, 2015
    I've got 2 close friends who are girls. pretty sure everyone has lmfao
     
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  4. TimmyT
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    TimmyT Self-Taught

    Apr 11, 2015
    the girl who i mentioned in the opening post told me she has 0 male friends

    i don't have any female friends
     
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  5. Mike02
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    Apr 11, 2015
    I do have girls that are just friends. But they're all unattractive. Very hard to be "just friends" with a hot chick.
     
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  6. because the internet
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    Apr 11, 2015
    well with me, I have a HUGE crush with both of them (ikr) but I didn't do anything and got hit with the friendzoned hard af. so hard that they both have boyfriends now. so we're just friends. yeah. it sucks.
     
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  7. sxneighty123
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    Apr 11, 2015
    Its impossible for males to have female friends.. I always ended up banging my female housemates after a night out. Its impossible to have a normal kind of friendship when the opposite side has a vagina..:westbrook:
     
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  8. because the internet
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    Apr 11, 2015
    well I do.
     
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  9. CODEiNE DEMON
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    CODEiNE DEMON One foot stuck in the tarpit of my ways

    Apr 11, 2015
    I have a couple female friends. They're all either not very attractive to me or already have boyfriends that I'm cool with and wouldn't want to f--- over like that tho
     
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  10. because the internet
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    Apr 11, 2015
    i seem like the most unlucky person itt
     
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  11. Deadpool
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    Deadpool the end

    Apr 11, 2015
    I'm friends with hot chicks, if the personality doesn't fit the girl I like to date then I get turned off to a certain point to were we are just friends
     
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  12. sxneighty123
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    Apr 11, 2015
    You cant really be friends with a girl when she has a boyfriend, and you cant have female friends when you have a girlfriend. That's kind of how it usually goes most of the time
     
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  13. because the internet
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    yeah you can
     
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  14. sxneighty123
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    Apr 11, 2015
    If you like the drama that comes with it then you can :emoji_wink: otherwise id stay away from being best friends with girls. That's just from my experience, I live with 4 girls and 3 dudes. It always just gets complicated when it comes to girls hah
     
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  15. WPG
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    WPG sxn80 Rory Gilmore

    Apr 11, 2015
    can't tell if timmy or luke is more pitiful here
     
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  16. because the internet
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    Apr 11, 2015
    well I don't live with them, I go to school with them. we have different situations aha
     
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  17. Tech
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    Apr 11, 2015
    I used to have a few. But now I lying next to one of them and im not allowed friends with vaginas :noah:
     
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  18. because the internet
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    Apr 11, 2015
    why are you on a forum if you've got a girl with you?
     
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  19. sxneighty123
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    I go to college with them and live with them, and just from my experience it isn't worth it. I guess we are in different situations :P Or maybe Irish girls are sluttier, i don't know haha
     
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    Apr 11, 2015
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